New Order Sexuality & etc.

 

Discussion New Order Sexuality etc 2-17-24 

          I think I'm ready for the next big move, like a race horse, pawing the dirt. Here I come! Tackle the hard one: sex! Where does one begin? I know why there are so few INTELLIGENT discussions on it, mostly clichés, delusions, either too derogatory or too hedonistic statements. Where's the smarts? Let's hope God willing we get some good answers.

 

         To kick off let me add 2 more FORBIDS:

·      No pornography

·      No video games

o     Why?

 

PORNOGRAPHY IS TABOO: 

         NOT because we enforce censorship or think sex is ‘dirty’ or ‘sinful’ but this item is DAMAGING to the psyche on all levels. It desensitizes one’s sexual consciousness.  The pornography available is created by either Mafia guys or some of the most low-minded men I have ever met – look at their productions; by their fruits ye shall know them.  Their fruits are UGLY.

         Patriarchal porno presents sex in a certain way, with no romance, sensitivity, LOVE or spirituality.  What is sex after all?  It is a desire for union with another soul – not just a physical release you might call ‘animalistic’ {I apologize to the animals, they are without fault} but it has mental, emotional & spiritual content – which is TOTALLY MISSING in the depiction of sex as presented.

         I read that boys begin to seek porn at AGE ELEVEN!  If this continues, they become ADDICTED to the physical stimulation & might need this for release.  This endangers their relationships with other persons, including their wives.  I know men {they have told me} who leave their wives sleeping in bed while they sneak over the pc, watch porn & masturbate.  Why is this wrong?  Ask their wife, lol.

         From my mystical experiences, I know there is ‘sex in Heaven.’  It’s portrayed in my dreams & visions – sex can be Union with God {portrayed that way} or union with another soul – be it a soul in Heaven, earth or Purgatory.  It is the UNION OF TWO SOULS on the mystical level.

         Do not degrade, diminish or minimize the goodness & beauty of sex.  It can be of God.  This is lost in male-domination pornography.

         In the Order, we will probably not have too many females accessing pornography - not every day.  Some might check it out of curiosity, & there it stops. They might be disgusted by it – I have seen MEN walk out of porno theaters {where I danced in between this garbage} out of disgust, one man said,

“I can’t take this any more.”

I might add that men DO look at pornography a lot, because I’ve seen the results of the SEX FADS this stuff begets.  Years ago it was the lie of women SQUIRTING – which was debunked but I heard benighted guys swear to it. One sent me a laughable video to prove it’s real – women were given tubes with water squirting out of it they placed under their vaginas.  And he wanted to believe, for some strange reason, it was real.  {The business does this to create new ways of sex to make more money.}

Now they’ve gone really off the wall to promote anal penetration of women.  This began in the mid-eighties & is still going strong.  I know otherwise decent men who ‘cheat’ on their wives because another woman will permit anal – while she won’t.  They become addicted to this ‘kinky’ style – so wifey step aside, I must get my kicks.  I personally know two guys who do this.  Not bad guys, just addicted to anal because of pornography.

I can see, besides wanting to make money, why the porno men promote this. It’s to DEVALUE the vagina – ‘I’ve got a better place for my dick, it’s tighter, her asshole is better.’

And I imagine then, it might also promote intercourse with other men, as if an anus is good for sex, why not them?  Heterosexual men can then be influenced.  Nothing wrong if one is gay or bisexual, it’s that the hetero men, especially married ones, are led to experiment.  Ask the girlfriends & wives how they feel about this.  I don’t usually harp about diseases, but did you know the easiest way to contract AIDS is by ass fucking? - Getting it especially.

When the anus is penetrated there are very often cuts in the skin – if a person with AIDS ejaculates there, the virus find a path to the bloodstream.  And I might add, I studied with the late Dr. Boyd Ed Graves, who did extensive research in the production of the AIDS virus, & it was originally created for release in the US {New York, the ‘Manhattan project - 1979} & this type of AIDS was made to STICK TO ANAL TISSUE.  It was purposefully & methodically introduced to gay men without their knowing it, under the cover of a vaccine against hepatitisB if I remember correctly – a problem gay men are susceptible to.  Twelve hundred gay men were murdered this way, the beginning of AIDS in America.

Now back to our Order.  We will have women with children within the Order - & half the children will be boys.  They are the ones most likely to fall into the porno trap.  What do we do about it, since people our Members are allowed to have modern technology?

It depends how serious it is.  First off, we will keep Members & children busy with education, work & healthy recreation, there won’t be much time for lollygagging.

 {Although we’ll be careful to give them ‘time off’ including ‘do nothing’ days if they request it, where they are excused from all activities.  I’ve devised that we’ll have signals one can pin on their chest, like a certain type of flower, if they wish to refrain from talking that day, & if they’re ‘burnt out’ or need to be interior, they can wear a ‘daisy’ on their shirt which implies, ‘I’m pushing up daisies.  Leave me alone.  I’m dead to the world.’  Such a person, wearing a daisy, cannot be told to do any tasks which Officers might demand – they must get special permission from an Officer to wear this, as it excuses them from everything.

 We’ll also have one special room with library & wing chairs, where people who want to withdraw, meditate, pray, read, be left alone, can appreciate.  We can call this the ‘Diogenese Room’ which Club was founded by the brother of Sherlock Holmes – Mycroft Holmes – which forbade talking.}

So back to the boys or anyone who might have a problem with pornography, what do we do about it?  It would often go secret but could leak out. Say on the computer where they are supposed to be WORKING but stop & go to the bathroom – an officer checks their computer & finds porno is the last observed – then what? {I take this from a real-life case, where the employee was fired.}

That would be up to the Elders, whether it’s a point for a simple reprimand & correction or some sort of punishment, or even from then on be forbidden the use of our work-based computers.

I brought up the word ‘punishment.’

I have thought about this a lot, & there will be no corporal punishment of any kind – that is forbidden by law.  However, the punishments of the mind & heart go deeper, often, than those of the flesh.

When people transgress seriously we will use the tact of SHUNNING, which is ignoring, forbidding repartee with any other members, for a time.  Being ignored, being made to sit at a separate table for meals from the members, being not even looked at, for a day, a week, or longer, can have devastating affects on the psyche.

Besides shunning there is the deprivation of special food treats & cessation of privileges such as ‘special trips off premises – going for pizza or ice cream or a movie or the zoo or theater’ etc.

 

The chef {in the Mother House cafeteria} will prepare special meals including desserts every dinner. Chef also cooks breakfast {lunch will be what is put on the table, uncooked, fruits, salads, cheese, & homemade bread.} The shunned one will not be allowed these.  Instead of fried eggs or pancakes or French toast, they will be given hard boiled eggs with plain bread – instead of the chef-made lasagna they will get a cheese sandwich with lettuce, instead of chicken with mashed potatoes they get a peanut butter sandwich – they eat at a table separate from the rest - what they eat specifically to be determined by the Elders. If they sneak other foods they will be labeled ‘weaklings’ as those who do wrong must pay for their sins.  If they do sneak privileges their punishment is prolonged.  And if anyone enables them to sneak food they’ll be given the same punishment.

Who is being shunned or punished will be written on a blackboard so everyone will know & comply.  You cannot look at, smile at, nod to, or in any way show respect or caring to one shunned.  They break the rules, they pay the price.  Correction brings improvement.  You want love?  You must respect the Order & its Members.

  Those are the items individual communities will work out, devise & enforce……………………………

 

VIDEO GAMES FORBIDDEN:  I have never played a video game in my life – never wanted to – just as I’ve never been a fan of watching male-domination sports, any kind of soap operas or vapid TV series except the Disney ones as a child.

But being on the computer, they often plop video games in front of me as an ad.  I’ve also studied the work of Lt. Colonel Dave Grossman on the subject, & he cites the VIOLENCE within video games as a great negative influence on the youth.  Let his Wikipedia page present my case & I have nothing more to explain:

 

Grossman's first book, On Killing: The Psychological Cost of Learning to Kill in War and Society is an analysis of the psychological processes involved with killing another human being. In it, he claims that most people have a phobia-level response to violence, and that soldiers have to be specifically trained to kill. He details some of the physical effects that violent stresses produce on humans, ranging from tunnel vision, changes in sonic perception, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

 Grossman's response to Engen, {a critic} printed in the same journal, attempted to address the criticisms by arguing that SLA Marshall's findings that man is not by nature a killer, even after having doubt cast on their methodology, have borne out in further scientific studies and real world experience, and furthermore, “have been the cornerstone of military and police training for over a half century.”^[5] "On Killing" has been cited over 3300 times, noted by Google Scholar.

In Stop Teaching Our Kids to Kill: A Call to Action Against TV, Movie and Video Game Violence, Grossman argues that the techniques used by armies to train soldiers to kill are mirrored in certain types of video games. He claims that playing violent video games, particularly light gun shooters of the first-person shooter-variety (where the player holds a weapon-like game controller), train children in the use of weapons and, more importantly, harden them emotionally to the task of murder by simulating the killing of hundreds or thousands of opponents in a single typical video game. He has repeatedly used the term "murder simulator" to describe first-person shooter games.

The next question is what do we do about someone who keeps watching these games?  That will be the same issue as pornography – if they refuse to obey & the transgression happens again & again, some type of shunning will be employed, as voted upon by the Elders.  It sounds like ‘nothing’ but the emotional effect of this is painful.

Secondly, I must add some of these rule-breakers will have Mothers, friends or sympathizers on the premises, who will sneakily allow them to continue breaking the rules.  When discovered, the same punishment will be applied to them - as an enabler of wrong is circumventing the goals of the Order.

And bottom line is, if these transgressions are serious {including more serious than those mentioned, such as violence to another Member, theft, destruction of property, bad-mouthing the Order or Members in public including on the internet} & multiple, there is always the door of exit from the community.  This is another subject to be addressed later – there’s a lot to it.

 

Sexual Education

Including anecdotes by the Founder, Elders, Officers & other adult females, of dangers associated with men – What to expect from men, how to prevent &/or escape unwanted situations.  This education/exchange is to benefit all females, not only the teens, but grown women who are still dating – no matter how old they are.

 The Founder was a Cougar from age 63 to 74 {dating dozens of young guys} until she left the scene.  She has her early experiences {age 14 to 33} plus these eleven years to share.  Being in the adult trade offered many scenes, being a dominatrix for ten years also.

We will have conferences, for women only. Here we share these experiences, giving advise how we could have gotten out of bad scenes – let the listener decide. I have noticed re the young, that they usually think ‘this won’t apply to me,’ & they feel they will not attract bad situations & be exempt from rape, violence, intimidation, threats & the like.  Total naïveté is what is in the young, just as in show business, in the beginning {I’ve been on both sides—the wanna’ be & the ‘has been’ trying to help the new guys} many think,

“I will be a star.  I deserve stardom, & it won’t be that difficult.”

Do I hear laughter?  The Angels sigh & chuckle at the stupidity of mortals.

There’s no guarantee of stardom even if one has talent.  There’s a huge, constant, full time work ahead for anyone who wants to be a ‘somebody.’  This is any field of SB, be it music, acting, singing, dancing – anything.  The work is full time, arduous, constant & sometimes harrowing, no matter how ‘great’ you might be.  I studied the stars & all of them worked like crazy to get where they were.

It’ll be the same with dating.  You think all will be well - haha.  You think men are different & you will meet those men that are ‘not like the others’ – you know how to pick them ha ha again.  Men have the same NATURE as they did thousands of years ago.  You think the devil shows you his face right off?  No, he appears as an ‘Angel of Light’ right at the start, & only after he gets you into a corner he takes off the mask.  This is given account of by countless women, how they got stuck with abusers, the whole genesis of it, how it began, how it ended with fear for their lives.

As I said, we’ll have discussions & females that are dating can present dilemmas.  We encourage everyone to watch Forensic Files & see what criminals do to women {of course not all snakes are bad, lol.} Some of these guys were ORDINARY MEN but in the end, upon provocation or urgency, they committed murder – mostly for MONEY.  Some cases make your hair stand on end.  Beware of situations that will make him kill you! - Or else, do damage to your children like ‘the burning bed.’

 There’s the serious threat of sexual abuse to children after you have separated from a man – they frequently take out their revenge by raping a child, either boy or girl.  The question of women who have separated from men & now must protect their children will be another huge issue.

Of course I know there are women who do murder & great damage to men as well.  That is not our concern – we have not to fear them as we are not married to them.  We discuss who presents a danger to us.

To be continued.  Rasa Von Werder  2-17-24