to Bey or not to Bey

 

 

Chapter 12   To Bey or not to Bey   8-8-22

 

          Anna Bey is the greatest expert on becoming the woman who snags the elite.  She knows it all – seriously – from cosmetics to surgery, to clothing, purses, deportment, culture, education, manners, status – you name it.  She has hundreds of movies explaining the subject, including her mistakes on the way.

 

Anna is now around 35, pushing into the time when these eligible men will no longer consider you prime real estate – by 40 these guys retire us {she seems to say} into obscurity & old age.  Not sure if she has a solution to that.  I’ve seen about two dozen of her tutorials, she has more answers than I’m aware of.

 

But yesterday she took the cake.  I watched two of her presentations – for me it’s like watching a cobra, I want to look away but I can’t.  She preaches the OPPOSITE of all that I represent, & yet, I am ON HER SIDE as she HAS A POINT.  My attitude is woman, stand on your own two feet – stop looking at penises.  Woman, the New Religion is WALK AWAY from men – create your own world, become the man & woman you want to be – re-animate the masculine traits you once sacrificed, be the strong, heroic, brave & bold person as well as the soft, caring, maternal, compassionate creature that you are.  Be all things you once were millennia ago when you were the Great Mother & we worshipped woman as God & God as woman – women reproduced through parthenogenesis.  It’s along way to go back there, but human men are going extinct, we’ll have no choice sooner or later. 

Last night I saw two of her videos – one was on the mistakes she’s made, & two, on staying away from male losers.  When done with this she penetrated my mind to the point I can’t dismiss, it captured me.  Previous to this I could watch & walk away.  Of humor to me are the purses.  She showed us all the purses from designers – I didn’t know then some of these cost thousands of dollars!  She explained which are chic, which are not & why.  I paid attention, went to the dollar store that looked to me like quality & bought it for twelve bucks, lol.

 

Then there was the clothing.  She explained what was chic, what not.  OK, I agree.  But her line of duds would not get any hardons from men I know.  When I dress like that I get no whistles, no men approach me, it’s like dressing nun style & you get as many offers as nuns.  Men as I know them go for sex & unless something sexy catches them, they ignore you – I mean ALL men wherever I go.  Of course I’m not talking millionaire yacht clubs or Palm Beach country clubs, I’m talking average venues.  I have not tried to infiltrate the elite wherever they hide, but I have had marriage proposals from the rich & famous – all based on my looks, body & youth.  They wanted sex so they wanted to marry me, that’s all I know.

 

Back to Anna.  So now, she’s talking of her mistakes.  First, it’s the eyelashes, she had them glued on permanently, so long that people were gossiping.  She shows an image – yes, they were extreme, yes, it did not do her good.  Then the hair color – dark.  No, it was not her best look, no she did not look elegant, not right for her.  But what really got me was the teeth.  She took out a loan – must have been like 50k or more – to have every tooth in her mouth capped.  She got a deal where they could do it in 7 days instead of the usual say 3 weeks or more?  And then, they started falling out.  Yiikes.  They had to redo every tooth, which mean drilling them down again – I’ve had some done – then recapping.  Finally it was over, she sports the lustrous perfect set she has now, they are beautiful – but what she went through I could imagine tears flowing down her eyes, not to mention her mouth was sensitive from all the stress for a year – couldn’t eat hot or cold, couldn’t open her mouth in cold air, etc -  An ordeal. Thank God the condition normalized. 

Now I was thinking of all the other procedures Anna had gone through, so many it boggles the mind, I can’t even remember them all.  I mean like enhancing her cheeks, reducing her chin was it?, puffing up her lips, hair extensions galore, tattooing her eyebrows, cosmetics going into hundreds of thousands & think of the stress.  All this TO SNAG A RICH MAN!  How HATEFUL men are who expect all this from a woman!

 

Then there’s the ‘trashy Reality TV show.’  Wow, was that eye opening.  It seems that prior to hers, a Princess of Sweden – I had seen her with the Prince – {the handsomest Prince that ever lived – walking down the aisle – people only stared at him, not her!  I heard she’d been part of a Reality Show – I thought it was a survivalist show – but Anna shows clips,

in one, she’s on her stomach, her top is off, a man is behind her massaging her thighs!}.

          Five years later, this is one of Anna’s MISTAKES – being on this national Swedish ‘trashy’ show.  She explains how the members are manipulated to do outrageous things – she kissed a girl as well as guys – she got fall down drunk, which producers appreciated, etc.  And for three weeks of degrading shenanigans she only made 300 bucks!  She repeats again & again how don’t do anything like this friends, it isn’t worth it.

 

          I analyze in my mind how the Princess looked & how Anna looked within this show.  The princess looked so young she could have passed for 18.  And wow, was she cute!  She looked like some sort of dessert – or a cute baby animal like a hedgehog or otter or baby raccoon, the kind you want to hold in your hands & cuddle.  I could see why the Prince would want her.

 

          Not so for poor dear Anna.  This is a while back – But Anna looked middle aged.  Her hair is dark, heavy makeup including dark red cheeks like a Tibetan or those who live in Siberia.  I found the cheeks positively annoying.  She looks amazingly, like 40 years old except for the ACNE, lol!  What is going on?  I can see why cutie got the Prince, but Anna made a mistake.  The mistake was her GROOMING.

 

          Today, Anna has transformed into an Angel.  She says MAKEUP makes you look OLDER! Her face looks completely natural, no makeup - only the telltale puffy lips say ‘altered’.  You don’t see all the surgeries or tattoos, attached lashes, fake hair, everything looks real.  She’s a Dresden doll, a statue of a Goddess, carved by an artist greater than Rodin or Michelangelo, she’s made by a supernatural power, - No paint, just surgery!  And she could pass for 20!

 

          Now the next video.  It’s the cheap men, those that are unreliable, who want you to pay half, don’t keep their promises, who – ok, so Anna got it the same as the rest of us –who make promises but don’t even give us Arpege – they just wanted to get laid.  Anna is passionate, yet as usual, articulate, & you have to hand it to her, English is her third language!  She’s Swedish, knows Italian & is a whiz at English & delivers her knowledge in the most pristine, luxurious settings, designer clothes & perfect poise.  They say ‘one of a kind’ – She is it.

 

          As Anna speaks, she delivers WHY men should pay.  This I had to hear.  I have my own version, Anna’s isn’t far off – we’re sisters under the skin.

          We have more EXPENSES!  When you think of the half million or so Anna spent to transform herself, you chuckle, but OK, indeed, what about the small scale of poor to middle class women?  She has a point, what does a poor woman have to pay?

          A poor woman has basically to take care of CHILDREN.  She’s got rent, food, clothing, diapers, etc, a myriad of expenses she has to struggle to get either from welfare or her own poor earnings.  We’re saying many women are ABANDONED.  Men had their fun, their teaspoon of sperm is delivered, the woman is left holding the bag & the bills.  What do they care?  They reproduced, they did their duty.  {Like the world needed more of them?}

          And the middle-class woman, such as myself, raised a child alone.  I paid everything – he had died & left me penniless on purpose by canceling his life insurance. {My first husband, I was 19}

          My choice was not welfare but work.  I was a dancer.  I paid a baby sitter.  The baby sitter is not cheap, one of the biggest expenses.  I lived MODESTLY, day to day, week to week, although I made decent money – it wasn’t enough to be COMFORTABLE; Constant worry re making ends meet.

          But Anna is in another orbit.  She hob knobs only with millionaires & teaches us to do so.  Of course, you expect these toffs to pay for it all.  But they don’t, apparently.  You mean, Anna, some rich guys expect us to pay half?  Outrageous!  I imagine being out with Dr. Robert Atkins for dinner, he asks me to pay half? {He did not}  Or Arnold, or Tom Selleck?  What a joke!  Of course they wouldn’t.  And I suspect – if any of them does, he’s only PRETENDING to be rich & actually looking for what he can get out of a woman.  Yes, I met some of those lowlifes – they’re out there.

 

          The next question, which is the right path?  To Bey or not to Bey?  To turn yourself into the Goddess of beauty, charm & poise as is Anna, no matter what the cost?  Or to follow the way of Guru Rasa, which says basically, stand alone like the rhinoceros, throw his Volkswagen out of the way with your horn, trot off & form a Sisterhood.  Use your money for that – help other women toward independence. 

          After all, isn’t Anna’s way one of continued dependence on men?  I saw the poor girl on an English TV show sweating in her Dior suit while a team interrogated her.  The woman was nice but the man accused her of going backward from feminism to Gold Digger.  Anna was nervous – who wouldn’t be?  She was too gracious to vent on men & say the thieves stole it all from us & now we must bend the knee, which we do, & they are selfish, egotistical, vain pieces of scum.  She handled herself diplomatically.

 

          However, the question stands, do we do what we have to do to win millionaires or do we just accept our lot, whatever it is, & not bow to men?  For one thing, if & when we snag the super rich, what do we do with all that money?  It’s beyond security, this is LUXURY.  Is all this necessary?  What do we say at the end of this life when we can’t take it with us?  What do we tell Peter at the Pearly Gates?  “I got it all – I snagged a man with 50 mil, now what do I get?”        

 

Although I am supportive & sympathetic to Anna, I will just explain my POV re her.  I follow her teachings because I am curious what is the correct way of behavior according to elites – manners, deportment, dress, do’s & don’ts – all of that, for me, could be of use.  I mean if & when I hob nob with these people I don’t want to come off as a Cretan, I want to blend in with class. {Say if I need to go to the rest room during a fancy dinner, how do I excuse myself?  I am certainly not going to say I HAVE TO GO TO THE REST ROOM! Lol}

 

And if I was young, I might pay attention to snagging a winner rather than a loser – if I had a choice {some women don’t.}  This is the short term – the here & now. 

But my vocation or mission is toward the LONG TERM.  I already accomplished my goals of youth – I succeeded on all fronts, had every type of success; material, physical & spiritual.

My work is to prepare women for the soon to distant future.  Human men are going extinct, women have to prepare to take over the world.  This is a big project; it takes a big Anointing & vision to explain.  I am explaining it.  For that, I must stay close to Mother God & hear her voice, see her Vison. 

To that effect, whatever moneys I receive for my life story are going to the Sisterhood, where I hope to prepare young women not to snag rich men, but to become fully independent, confident & powerful within themselves.  Don’t let men weaken you by thinking you need them – you need only God at your side.  You need faith, hope, trust & confidence in God & realize She is inside you.  God & you are One.  Men are helpmates, but they cannot tell us what to do, how to think, how to act. 

That is what I see as the purpose of my money.  Unfortunately, most of the women who do get big money don’t spend it on that – they ratchet up their lifestyle & live for themselves, & world, not sisterhood & the future.  And so, all that big money is wasted.

To Bey or not to Bey?  That is the question up to you. 

 {End Chapter 12}