From
GuruRasa Von Werder 3 6
12
Excerpt
from my forthcoming book, “The Gods of Sex”
How do I know? He checks your
pulse.
Of course, a lot goes on
between meeting the darling & the pulse checking. Let’s begin
here:
How to
Talk on the Phone With Women From the Dating
Services
First, he teaches me, he
does not deal with “10”s. They are
too hard to manage; arrogant, full of themselves, you can’t control them. He contents himself with “7”s although
he himself is “10” – the “7”s are most likely to do as they are told. (That is the important thing, do as they
are told. You need a steady supply
of love / sex with the women; it’s not a beauty contest. He likes them fit & attractive,
curvy, maybe a few pounds extra, slim but nice. No fatties, no skeletons, body first,
face second, they must be compliant.
They go through rigorous interviews to see if they’re Derrick
material.)
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Loving Sex
Main thing to find out is
IF SHE’S WILLING TO HAVE SEX RIGHT AWAY.
You don’t want those broads that make you grow a beard before they make
you grow.
Ask her the
following,
“When’s the last time you
had a relationship?”
(If she just broke up might
not be good material.)
“Have you been
dating?”
(If no, she might not give
it up.)
“When’s the last time you
were intimate?”
(If it was yesterday, you
have a good chance. If it was a
year ago, ditto, haha. The main
thing is whether she does it or not.)
When you get the ones on
the phone that you like: Be sure to
get off the phone first. Have her
call you back at a specific time.
Don’t talk too long, as more than ten minutes is the kiss of death. You have to remove yourself so she can
talk to more men & you to more women.
If she doesn’t call you
back at the time stated, it’s over.
She will not reciprocate in a relationship.
You must try to determine
by phone HOW SHE LOOKS NAKED.
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Loving Sex
WHEN TO SAY “NEXT” & MOVE ON
What to talk about:
If they don’t want to talk
about sex, means they don’t like sex – pass – Women who like sex want to do it
right away.
You can introduce the topic
of sex like so: Tell her you had a
naughty dream about her. If she
does NOT want to hear it.......... NEXT. (next
woman, she isn’t into sex or you.)
You can also ask
her,
“Have you ever had a
naughty thought of us together?”
And she
says,
“No, I’m not THAT KIND OF A
WOMAN”..........NEXT.
Then if she’s friendly,
ask,
“Have you played with
yourself thinking of us?”
If she says yes, you’ve got
it made. If she’s playing with
herself thinking of you, she’s ready to have sex with
you.
Be INNOCENT (benign) in
your questions.
“Did you service
yourself? Did you do something
about it? How about us getting
together and serving each other?”
Guys usually think in GROSS
terms – porno – which turns women off:
“Do you wanna fuck? Suck my
dick?”
Men are too hot or too
cold. Make it WARM, put it in the
MIDDLE.
Talk about her sex
fantasy:
“Were you naked? Did I kiss you on the
neck?”
Ease into it
ROMANTICALLY. Women are
sensitive.
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BEFORE YOU MEET HER
You must talk about sex but in a romantic, not pornographic way. Ask
questions:
“What positions do you
like?”
“Do you ever fake it? I don’t want you to fake
it.”
There is MENTAL
FORPLAY.
Be careful what kind of
words you use, like cunt & bitch – not to turn them off. You don’t want her to think of you as a
PERVERT. (He defines pervert as a
selfish man who only thinks of his orgasm & not the woman’s
pleasure.)
RIGHT KIND OF PROFILE
It’s crucial to have a
profile that attracts a woman who is serious about meeting
someone.
Don’t show SKIN –
SHOW YOUR BODY, BUT NOT too much of
it.
She likes you when she
responds or favors you – a flirt or wink.
You say “thank you,” – give
her your number to call you. Some
don’t call. Some send their
number. Wait for them to call
you.
On the phone – see if the
conversation flows. Use your
intuition & gut if she’s just there playing games, or if she’s serious about
meeting. If she doesn’t open up
it’s a problem, look for her being receptive. If it doesn’t flow just politely get
off. Say
like,
“I have to do
something.”
Don’t tell her
what.
If she calls & leaves a
message, call back. If she doesn’t
call you back she’s DISMISSED.
When the conversation
flows, set up a meeting (if she’s within driving
distance.)
Derrick is Rasa Von Werder's partner in promoting
Loving Sex
LOCALS VS. OUT OF TOWNERS
With out-of-towners you
have to talk a month or so before the setup.
For locals you have a “meet
& greet” where sex might not take place, even if you like her. I sometimes put it off, because I want
to do things with her, have fun, not just sex.
But with out-of-towners,
the meet & greet is the sex.
When you meet a local the
first time, you sit next to her, not across from her. You have to gage IF SHE TOUCHES YOU OR
NOT.
You touch her when you meet
(hug, kiss) but don’t touch her again – wait for her to do it. If she touches you two or three times,
go for a kiss. Kiss her back the
way she kissed you. She will kiss
you again, go with her style.
If she moves away or turns
away from you it’s a bad sign – she’s not really interested in
you.
Some women take a long time
to open up – I don’t have time for that.
So if there is no touching or kissing, I move
on.
If she wants to have sex
right away, I might do it or I might postpone it I’m serious about a
relationship. (ed: one of his multiple relationships, he
never has JUST ONE.)
If you go to see a woman
out of town, you either stay in her place or get a room – she should pay for the
room. (He admits that women rarely
pay for the room the first time.)
If you meet in the middle
the man pays for the room.
Give her the option to
refuse you after you meet.
It’s the man who sets the
framework during the month & a half before meeting, he says. He should mention to her that he’s not
going to pressure her for sex if it doesn’t clic.
He admits it has to work
both ways. Once a woman showed up
that was forty pounds overweight & ugly. He declined, gave her the keys to the
room & departed.
Derrick is Rasa Von Werder's partner in promoting
Loving Sex
DERRICK’S ENERGY KAREZZA
Derrick is the one who
introduced me to “Energy Karezza” & that got me focused on “Tantra.” The man has studied sex for years – I’ve
been listening to him for three - Most of the time I didn’t pay attention, just
listened as I like him, but I found the subject boring. His brand of books at first was gigolos,
pimps, “experts” on seducing, holding, controlling women. I would cringe or laugh at some of the
stuff.
But recently, when he hit
upon Dr. Stanley Bass & his “Energy Karezza,” I started to listen & even
took notes.
“Doesn’t that have to do
with worship of Goddess, worship of woman as God? Did he mention that in his
book?”
Derrick said no, he saw
nothing like that.
I immediately hit Google
on
“Worship of Mother God
through the body of a woman as a path to Enlightenment” & came upon pay
dirt. Absolutely, Tantra has been
practiced for 22,000 years. He’s on
to something! I had better check
into this, it might be the answer to prayer, how to relieve sexual repression in
our culture; bring back worship of Mother God &
women.
Derrick gave me his script
for Energy Karezza, which I guess he got out of the book, that he started
working on two women. The women
love it. Here it is: (Note that he does not put the spiritual
part into it - that awaited my imprimatur.)
DERRICK’S LOVE
ANOINTING
First things first,– he is
romantic, engaging, mostly charming, articulate, playful & very horny on the
phone, without being a pervert.
When he meets you he is
touchy, but not too touchy, massaging your neck & back, waits for you to
take his hand & hold it – grieves if you don’t. Constant interaction, eye contact,
smiling, wining & dining you, teasing you – makes women melt. Most women he meets get horny right away
– some weirdoes don’t melt, they have mental
issues.
Derrick goes off the beaten
path to court a lady. One time he
took Cassandra hiking. They both
wore back backs. Miles into the
mountains atop California, they come upon a cave, scoped in advance by clever
Derrick. Derrick opens up his
backpack. There is a blow up
mattress, a candle, & a flower.
He gives the flower to Cassandra, kisses her hand, blows up the mattress,
lights the candle & lays her.
She swoons from shock & the pleasure.
Then there’s the scavenger
hunt. One of his women has a
birthday. He gets a bunch of
envelopes for a “hunt” like finding Easter eggs. The first envelope tells her they are
going to Starbucks for coffee, she will find the second envelope there. The second envelope takes them to a
store for a special bracelet he buys her.
She finds the third envelope there, which directs them to a lovely
outdoor place, overlooking a garden, for lunch. He planned a bottle of champagne &
birthday cake in advance! There she
is directed into the garden where there is a bouquet of roses for her behind a
bush. The envelope there tells her
to go somewhere, etc. This goes on
for hours.
Finally the last stop of
the scavenger hunt. They are at the
trunk of Derrick’s car, & he opens it, saying,
“This is your real
present.”
Inside his trunk are forty
blown up balloons, one for each of her years. She has to break them open, & inside
is a note explaining why Derrick loves her – forty reasons. She cries.
He has done this FOR
MULTIPLE WOMEN.
No wonder they fall in love
with him. He’s got three, four five
women infatuated at the same time, ALL THINKING SHE IS THE ONE & ONLY, somehow he gets around to them without the
others knowing, servicing them for HOURS OF SEX – no standard blow & hump
for Derrick, & get this:
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Loving Sex
DERRICK DOES NOT ALLOW BLOW JOBS & HE DOES NOT
MASTURBATE, DOES NOT WATCH PORN
And there my friends, could
be three of the reasons for his success. First of all, he has a lot of “psychic”
or sexual energy because he never relieves himself with his hand. He’s told me many times while we were
talking he had a hardon. Most men
cannot bear the pressure of a hardon & they relieve themselves, but Derrick
never does. All is for the woman,
& he never comes until he knows for sure she
has.
The blow jobs are another
story. He says he doesn’t want any
woman to control him, & apparently, men love blow jobs so much if they get
them from a woman she (presumably) has control.
The third item,
pornography, also makes Derrick completely different, as almost all the men I
know watch porn. Porn is deadly for
intimacy & sensitivity toward a woman.
Men begin seeing women in the way that porn depicts them, depersonalized
things to be used, objects to fill his needs. There is no love for women in
porno. (Men also look subhuman.)
And so, by avoiding porno,
Derrick remains sensitive to the finer feelings & needs of the woman, he
concentrates on pleasing her.
Unlike most men, HE ACTUALLY ASKS THE WOMAN WHAT SHE
LIKES.
Most males will tell you
WHAT HE LIKES. Can you ride
it? Do you give a good blow
job? Can you tighten your muscles
around his dick? Do you like it up
the ass? Etc. They get crude & offensive, women
begin to hate men.
That’s why when Derrick
comes along, women melt. I mean the
other guys give sex a bad name, Derrick is a
healer.
Which is not to say that
Derrick is all saint, no devil. He
does two bad things. The first, I
already told you, he lies. He plays
them to get them & keep them.
Sooner or later they find out.
These relationships are mostly temporary, even though he services them in
a special way. These are women who
want to be exclusive, & he lies that they are. Most of them, when they find out, break
up with him – they feel betrayed, they’re angry. One woman blogged him for his
infidelity, declaring him to be toxic, without empathy & monstrous. His average relationship lasts a few
months to three years before the shit hits the fan – he doesn’t care, he always
has more, one out of five stays, he gets new ones. But here is the
worst:
DERRICK HAS SEX WITHOUT CONDOMS
Ok, it’s bad, no excuses, I do not defend
him. Derrick is not black or white,
he’s grey, & when he’s good, he’s very good, & when he’s bad, he’s
horrid. This is the worst, no need
to explain. What floors me is that
he persuades the women (not all of them) to let him do it bareback. How dumb can these broads be? They are RISKING THEIR LIVES FOR A GOOD
TIME & SO IS HE. Enough said,
draw your own conclusions.
DERRICK’S KAREZZA SEX
Here’s the script Derrick
gave me:
In Derrick’s bed, you must
have at least SEVEN different activities which you alternate doing, average five
minutes at a time. He gave me
twelve.
(1)
dry pumping / humping,
missionary position, man on top
(2)
five minutes same thing,
woman on top
(3)
five minutes man dry humping
from the back
(4)
five minutes man kisses
breasts
(5)
five minutes man kisses
neck
(6)
five minutes man kisses
pussy
(7)
five minutes man fingers “g
spot”
(8)
five minutes man fingers
clitoris (as he fingers her
clitoris he kisses her neck, breasts & body)
(9)
five minutes hump her inside
missionary position
(10)
five minutes woman humps him
on top
(11)
five minutes he humps her
from behind
(12)
five minutes she rides him in
a chair
At this point, after doing
all twelve of these things, Derrick then humps the woman doing the shallow /
deep strokes. Nine shallow, one
deep, eight shallow, one deep, seven shallow, one deep, until you get to the ten
deep. Then you change into
something else on the list.
The man MUST NOT COME AT
ALL through the entire Session Number
One.
The first session is
ONE HOUR. The
woman should come at least once in the First Session. Now start the Second Session, doing all
these things, & the woman comes again.
At the end of the Second Session, the man can come. The woman comes at the end of both
sessions, before the man.
AFTERCARE
Derrick is also attentive with aftercare. He does not do a woman one time, he has
relationships. When they are done
loving, he keeps in touch by phone & visits both ways, constantly
interviewing them on how they enjoyed being with him, did they really come or
faked it (they all say they really came), what did they like about him? (his smile! I hear most of them say on the
three-way!) etc. etc. He has sex
with right now, three women, averaging three long nights & mornings a week,
three hours at night, & two hours in the morning of lovemaking, as
described.
What do you make of this man?
I am still scratching my head.
My turn is coming up – maybe.
He’s in California & we have never met. He says it will be the greatest romance
& love I have ever had. I don’t
doubt it. Compared to most men –
well let’s face it – they stink.
Derrick, along with the condoms I put on him, will seem like a rose
without thorns.
I might add a bit of truth here,
“If you wanna score like
Derrick,....you gotta look like Derrick.”
(hahaha, if you don’t, you might hit on women that are 1 to 6, maybe
that’ll work)
Guru Rasa 3 6
12
(This article took six
hours to write)
