New Lover to be: Something Wrong in his present relationship

 

5-3-25 The Lover Again - & one from before

 

I am with a gorgeous young man who has darkish skin – but he isn’t African American. He’ got real short hair close to his head, his head with all the hair down like that is smooth.

*{I know this is the future love interest. My Mother God says to me: “Don’t think in terms of time – what happens how & when. He is like a DEED I gave you to this property. You own the property but when you inhabit it is another story. Don’t fret, worry or be concerned about how or when - just accept it… OK the symbol is he’s young – that he is. The dark skin I sense is when life is GLOOMY like “my world is dark right now” – depression, sorrow.}*

He’s close to me & we have a cozy chat. Are we sitting on a bed or a couch? Then I leave. I somehow see after I leave, another woman entering & he’s speaking with her & I sense she’s significant.

I’m not exactly jealous, although I’d prefer I was the only one, - I take it for granted this other woman must be there.

As they talk I notice she has on a knitted white shawl – very sparse, you  see dark clothing underneath.

*{This other woman is his significant other. She has on the white shawl that represents marriage – I had on the same shawl – hers is more sparse than mine, showing dark underneath – that’s the darkness under the guise or mask of marriage – something is wrong here. While mine is a better fabric - a positive symbol..}*

When he & I were talking I had on a similar shawl also with sparse knitting, but more closed up than hers.

They are by a CORNER of a building as if outside – while my time with him was indoors.

*{Outside, a corner – mine was inside. Outside can mean ‘leaving’ or being outside the marriage. The CORNER is very significant. ‘Turning a corner’ means a big change.

He is closer to me, she on his right. They talk. Then they’re finished & she gets up {they were sitting kind of like she was slightly lower than him facing him. She then gets up & I at first glance predict,

“Big” or “heavy” like she is OVERWEIGHT.

Her bottom garment is a dull heavy BLACK & she has large hips, but to my surprise, as I look closer she has a tiny waist cinched in with a soft leathery black belt. I’m looking from the back. Her top is average size -  dark blue with light specks. She ROUNDS TO CORNER of this stone building to depart.

*{Departs the marriage this says – her outfit. The bottom being dull black refers to the nuptials – no more sex. The top is sorrow or depression. Why did I at first think she was fat but see she has a tiny waist? That will require more thought, new symbols. Rounding the STONE building is once something was solid, but now there’s CHANGE, as she TURNS THE CORNER.}*

Forgot to say: After we were done talking he was still in the bed facing the wall where the head rest would be. He was speaking in an articulate way – like a teacher or professor & he was protesting or explaining something of great trouble – a dilemma. It seems to do with relationships – family & he went on & on about it in a strong voice.

*{FACING THE WALL is when one is faced with an UNSOLVABLE or impossible problem. He’s venting about his relationship & family – something is VERY WRONG that can’t be solved.}*   {End}

 

The Clusters of Small Snakes on the Thick Comforters {a couple days ago dream – 5-1-25}

 

I needed a place to sleep for the night & a ROOM WAS PROVIDED. It had at least THREE BEDS {maybe more}. I look at the beds & am dismayed to see that two of the beds, with super thick comforters {like the kind that are filled with feathers, recently saw this in ‘Fiddler on the Roof – Topol & his wife under such covers – they did it this way in the old days including in my country. As a child I slept under such a cover.} – these comforters are riddled with clusters of small black snakes sticking together reminded me of the large back rubber bands I recently purchased lol. This is hideous, one could not sleep in such a bed!

As I look around I see the other bed. It has a sort of faded, DUSTY look, dull red color, also thick but perhaps not as much as the others – not feathers, just regular comforter. There’s a washing machine right there in the kitchen next to this room. I plan to take this blanket & wash it there - it will be OK – those other blankets you could not deal with at all – they were out of the question for me to use.   {End}

MEANING:

*{The bed Topol & his wife were sleeping in is when he was grieving about what to do with his eldest daughter – who wanted to marry the poor tailor, while Topol had already promised her to the rich old butcher. He resolves this issue during the night under these covers in this bed. So this situation is probably having to do with a person & either {1} their daughter or child {2} their marriage.} This is a bed of contention, conflict, trying to SOLVE something MARITAL or FAMILY.

The THREE BEDS: I finally guessed this was about the future love interest, & then I was curious. The two beds that are UNINHABITABLE are his & her bed – his & her situation. You CANNOT FIND REST in these beds or these predicaments. It’s hopeless. But there is another bed – a DUSTY one. Could this be MINE or FOR ME? Dusty would be I have not had sex, a relationship or date for SIX YEARS. The red WOULD REPRESENT PREVIOUS sufferings.

So this bed is HABITABLE. All one has to do is ‘dust it off’ or WASH IT & then it’s OK for rest, sleep or COMFORT. I other words, this situation works, it is do-able. This refers to him & me instead of him & her.

Does the symbol of the black rubber bands have any significance being clusters of snakes? Rubber makes me think of two things – rubber STAMPS where you stamp something to form a picture or to mean ‘approval’ – or else, ‘rubber checks’ which means they bounce – there’s no money in the account. And the black snakes means something evil or negative.

Based on previous dreams it seems to me this is about money – dreamed before a woman in his life is using him for money. And this could be she’s writing checks that bounce – for what? That is, using more money than they can afford – being negligent with it. It’s something evil or negative. The thought that comes to mind is DRUGS.

Topol did resolve his dilemma re the butcher & the tailor & decided for LOVE – Both he & wife consented to the love relationship rather than the one about money.

This seems to say which will it be – a relationship for money or one for love? Love wins.}*   {End}