Monday, 5 February 2024

New Order for Women

 

New Order-What’s it About 2-3-24

The New Religion & Order for Women is a Mystery to Some

 William Bond writes:  

Hi Everyone

One thing I have been thinking about with starting a matriarchal community is that, why would anyone want to join it?  








We can see the attraction for women, they will be in charge. But I know what many women would say, “what’s the catch”. This is because many women would have problems in believing men will submit to female rule. 

 So we have to think about men, why would they want to join a matriarchal community where they will be bossed around by women? Femdom men would like it, but would most ordinary men want that? 

 People will only join up if they think their lives will be better in a matriarchal community. So I think we have to think about how to motivate people to want to join. 

Pete Jackson says:

William, your response is tangential to this conversation, and really part of another ongoing and perennial discussion, but still something to think about nonetheless. Not so much for Rasa's New Order for Women, as men joining as full members as it were would be counter to the basic principle of safe space for Women, but rather more for any other alternative, unaffiliated or very partially affiliated Matriarchal and quasi-Matriarchal communities, both religious and secular, both segregated and integrated, and everything in between, etc. that will inevitably pop up in the future.  (To put it in the lingua franca of the world's currently largest but declining church, and thus make it a bit easier to wrap one's mind around:  some such communities will be in "full communion" with the Bishop of Binghamton (aka Rasa), others in "partial communion", and still others will be de facto "excommunicate and anathema", but even so, all of which nonetheless have their own roles to play in the broader movement.)  You certainly make some great points overall.  Thank you.   Best wishes to you both, Pete

 Pete adds:

          I don't think I have anything else to add to the conversation at this time, or anything else about the new Order right now, but another time I might.  We shall see if I have any further ideas that are actually worth sharing, and not just me blowing hot air.  It's a topic that truly deserves the utmost respect, not mere silly armchair philosophizing or "shooting from the hip" as I sometimes tend to do when I get out of my depth. Though I think I am better than I used to be.  (And unless specifically otherwise noted, all of my blog articles past, present, and future should be presumed to pertain to the society of the nation and world as a whole and my general vision thereof, not to the Order, regardless of the topic.) 











          Rasa answers:

          Indeed, what William is asking is a new subject.  Pete & I discussed the freedom vs security measures I plan to take regarding men wanting to come to our dance/gatherings.  We finished that, now this.

          Why would women want to join our order?

          These reasons: Women will have a place of SECURITY in the way a good loving & secure family would provide for its children.

          We have finances.  They will never be broke, penniless, homeless, worrying re bill payment.  They have a home to go to – it is the Order.  If they leave to get married & it goes bad, they return to our premises, with their kids if any.  Support will be given for education & starting their own businesses.  Support for all levels of educational on & off premises.  We have our own schooling including higher education & show business.  But if they choose to go off premises or if other types education is appropriate for them –{some women might want to learn architecture & construction, car repair, law enforcement, nursing & the like} – we help them study & graduate.  They can be of service to the Order with these skills.

 

          We have the New Religion aimed to Empower women – learning to worship the God within ourselves, not a God of the Patriarchs.  This is cleansing of the mind from the brainwash put upon us for thousands of years.  We don’t need a Father, but a Mother God.  We will conduct intensive studies into how our Empire of women fell & retrieve the lost Wisdom of women.  All that women are & what they are meant to be will be explored -  women as Mothers, Leaders of the family & the world, honoring the Great Infinite Mother God that made us & training our children in this positive new way.

          There will be emotional & physical security & safety away from men.  Where women are, especially the young, here come the men, trying to tell us what to do - Intimidating, harassing, calling us names like ‘man haters, bullying us, challenging us, even threats if it comes to that.  A world filled with Patriarchal men is NOT OUR FRIEND.  We need to GET AWAY & this is where.

          Women need SAFE SPACE.  Where will the go?  Men have the entire world, which is on their side.  Besides that, to get away from women & family, they have men’s clubs & brotherhood.  They have men’s activities like sports & hunting.  But women are supposed to be confined, barefoot & pregnant, no ladies night out every week – no sisterhood.  Women literally, once married, are not allowed SINGLE female friends. It’s a cultural taboo! Because single women will EMPOWER the married female – give her support, a place to ESCAPE, mental & emotional strength, even finances, & this is a NO NO as Sisterhood in patriarchy is TABOO!

          The Order is a refuge for single & married women – a place to hide, to escape, to be private, to think her own thoughts & dream her own dreams. - A place of strength & love from her Sisters, a female Valhalla. 

          The next question is a CORKER:        

So we have to think about men, why would they want to join a matriarchal community where they will be bossed around by women? Femdom men would like it, but would most ordinary men want that?

         Rasa:   How wrongly you think, William!

         This is not about men, nor do we solicit men to join our Order. The men who do join will be few & their privileges will be limited.  Those who are attracted to our Female Members or want to marry them will have to join if they want to participate in anything we do.  There will probably be one man to ten women if that.  But the women will have CHILDREN & this will be encouraged.  Half the kids will be boys. Within a few generations we’ll have many male members born into our community & trained in our POV.  These will be encouraged to marry women who think like us, mostly those within our Order, but if outside, if the men wish to stay in our Order, their wives will have to take training if they are to participate.

         In this Order, we are not focused on men.  We need time & space to find ourselves, who we are – what a woman is supposed to be by the design of the Almighty.  We need time, space & sounding boards to examine our thoughts, feelings & aspirations.  We need Sisters to encourage us, hear us out.  The LAST THING we need is for men to monitor us, judge us, critique what we do or tell us how to think, feel & act.  This is what we’re getting away from.  These are the chains we are to break, the fetters, the fences, the patriarchal guards against our freedom.  As I said, this is to find ourselves as we are, not as men want us to be. 


















         Second, Femdom men will not find a fitting place within our Order.  What is a Femdom man, a submissive as we have experienced in the Patriarchy?

         These men want to be NURSED by a Mother. They have some kind of severe Attachment Disorder.  Attachment Disorder is rampant in a Patriarchy – probably all humans within it have some of it, but these men are so extreme that they DRAIN the female of all her time & strength.  They are even worse, if you can believe it, than the regular ‘normal’ Patriarchs.

         They cannot live without a Mother & their need is so strong that they are like children under the age of ten.  They make the woman center her life around them, worse than regular men, as they don’t want to leave her unless it’s flitting about looking for other women to dominate them.

         Think of a toddler who needs a wet nurse – this is them, emotionally, even the Masochists, who recall their Mom as a Dominating Bitch who beats, intimidates & scares them.

         We do not need to saddle or Members with this as they need time for other matters, unless they want to start a Female Domination business.  They are free to do that as they are free to go out into the world & do whatever business they please, except, Members will need to spend some quality time, at least in the beginning, like a Seminary, to learn our Religion & our ways, & this will take some years.  This pertains to the Leadership type Members, not the ones who want to be on our premises part time – say once a week.  The leaders need time & energy for education & the Order should be their first priority, not the needs of any man.

         If anyone tells me that the ‘submissive’ men serve the women I can tell you otherwise, having been in that field for over ten years.  There’s a reason why they PAY for services – we serve THEM, what they do for us does not make up for the hoops they put us through {more so mentally, emotionally a well as the physical.}

         In conclusion William, I think you’re looking at our Order in a slanted way, through the eyes of men, you’ve failed to see what we’re about or what I’m trying to do.  You were not supportive of the New Religion from the beginning – instead you immediately set out to write a ‘New Religion for Femdom Men.’  This offended me as I felt you could be trying to help me in this monumental task instead of going off on your own & as usual, serving Femdom men.

         This new Order is not about men, Femdom or otherwise.  It’s about women; it’s new therefore, as few Orders are made for women.  The religious places where women usually go off on are controlled by men & therefore they are NOTHING like what we’re doing.

         We are not about being told what to do by men – their version of morality, our behavior, our thoughts, feelings or actions.  We are NOT serving men of any sort, on bended knee to them or nursing them.  We need to get away & this is our Refuge of Women.  {end}

            2-4-24 Vacation & New Music Group 3 Guys Success

Dream explains it was a demon that got me to quit being a vegetarian, that I should eat more plant-based foods again.

 

         I’m on this vacation trying to have a good time when it’s nearing its end.  I try to assess if I succeeded with it by did I make love to anyone? {lol, this pertains to Purgatory!} It seems I DID NOT but still, it was a fairly good time – good weather, nice room I stayed in.  The only male I DID make love to I add grudgingly is that ‘some ole’ bf that always shows up – CabHell.  I see him & myself at a restaurant & he has in front of him steak – which is about 4” thick – 2 of them, he’s eating.  Only a quarter inch on the sides of the steak are cooked, the rest is RAW & bleeding red - & that’s how he likes it.

         On my plate I have a tiny hamburger cooked thoroughly, it’s a half inch thick, no redness or blood.  Cabhell is sitting about 4’ from me to my right.  It’s like he always shows up, I take him for granted.  Nothing special.  {Somehow he applies to this dream, but the food part, more so to the next.}

         It’s time to get back home & it’s easy.  I thought I had to call, get a ticket & all that, but I just have to walk down the street, there to the right is the office I was in before when I arrived & close to it is the airport - All easy.  I am relieved there are no hassles.

 

The next dream somehow I am involved with 3 young males who have started a band.  I didn’t seem to belong to this but somehow do get involved, & am working with them, helping them.  It’s my way of getting involved – to help.  And so far they have scored some sort of success there were scenes I know were there but have faded out.

What is definite is I see them posing for a picture & all 3 are wearing the same hats.  Not sure what to call them, they are plain, sort of Russian style, have rims & fit around the skull snuggly, & are made of a POODLE material, {little balls of fur all curled up} & all solid black.  Under these hats come some braids, tightly woven, just a few, like 4 or 5 on each guy – long ones.  Saw Freisel horses yesterday & they had braids like that.

The unusual thing about these hats is they got them from an unexpected source - a person they thought of no account, but this person either gave them or influenced them to get these hats & they wore them.

Then I’m sitting making SMOOTHIES.  The smoothies had to do with their success somehow.  And if I learn to make them just as they have – I will contribute to their success.  So I sit & put an electric mixing stick like the ‘Thunder Stick’ I used to have, & in it put something white, like yogurt, & I imagine fruits & vegetables, light colored.  And they consume a few of these as all 3 eat them.  It’s part of their daily routine.  There are a few steps to their success, they’re on their way.  {end}

MEANING:

         *{ME:  Wow, Mother God, I am baffled.  I suspect Cabhell is a demon – if any boyfriend was pure demon, it was him.  And yes, he got me off being a vegetarian little by little by taking me to Kennedy’s Takeout – first I only ate fish which was real good, & later, due to his negative influence, started having chicken also.  So ended my 14 years of vegetarianism.

When I see him consuming that steak I think God is telling me this demon tempted me to eat meat & I fell for it.  I see how evil it is when I see him consuming the raw steak.  I did not think of myself as being that evil, but as I eat this meat, I’m the same as him, raw or cooked. 

And the successful group second dream shows me how to be a success.  Make smoothies – I haven’t been juicing & making the pulp bread for a long time.  {Because one of my juicers has malfunctioned, & I’ve been lazy to get the other one & just do it}.  But this is saying if you don’t juice - make smoothies, as here described.  I need more raw food in me.  And that way I’ll succeed.  This is all I can figure; I need you to clue me in on all the symbols & details.

MG:  You got the basics. The demon against vegetarianism got you through Cabhell & here you are eating red meat {though seldom}. Whether it’s huge & rare or raw or little & innocent looking, it’s the same.

This dream encourages you to eat more raw, plant-based foods. It’s the PATH TO SUCCESS.

ME: But why 3 young musicians starting a band?  How do they fit in?

MG:  It’s just a story – the road to success, how to make it.  Doesn’t matter what symbols are used, it’s the road to success.  And it’s saying they do this daily, they succeeded; you should learn to do it also – which in the dream you are.

The hats & hair are significant.  The long braids coming out under the hats – braids are hair is disciplined or controlled, not allowed to run loose & free.  These are thoughts.  Don’t let your thoughts permit you to do anything you want – do the right thing.

Second is the same.  The poodle hats, the hair is curled into balls, again, under restraint, not running loose & free.

The moral is discipline yourself & eat more raw plant-based foods, you will succeed with your health.

As far as you being on vacation & counting if you made love to anyone – would have been did you find souls this night & you did not.  Making love means intimacy or closeness.

But ole’ sleufoot, the devil appears to remind you of how you quit vegetarianism.  This was given you from listening to the Leo Tolstoy short story, “Ivan the fool” where it speaks of 3 small devils & their leader.

ME: I must here assert that I’m drinking apple or orange juice & eating fruit & raw veggies daily:  A banana, a carrot, a peach or large salad every day.  Is this not enough?

MG: It wouldn’t hurt to consume more.}*   {end}









 

  

          

 

 

 

 

6 comments:

  1. This one came out excellent as usual, Rasa. Very well-said overall. The artwork and fuzzies complement it nicely as well. I will be sure to share it.

    I don't think I have much else to add at this time.

    Best wishes and keep up the great work,

    Pete

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  2. One thing I might add about the Femdom men you describe. Many of the self-proclaimed "serious" FLR lifestylist men would vehemently object to what you said, of course, but from what I have observed mainly online, they are also largely cut from that very same cloth as well, cynical as that may sound. The biggest difference, if any, is that they cannot seem to fully distinguish fantasy from reality. And the few exceptions, who only go to prove the rule, are the ones who generally DON'T wear it on their sleeve.

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  3. Indeed Ajax, you are right. Like Freud said, if anyone disagrees with his theories let him have the same experience he had. They didn't - they had ideas, delusions, but Freud had experience through his psychoanalysis of many. And so have I. It was 10 years on hand in a business. Bssides that, from the age of 20, I had men approach me to be 'slaves.' I tried out one - total failure. However, there are exceptions. I had one 'slave' man named Jack. He was more helpful than anyone. Of all the men in my life, he was one of the 3 most effective, helpful & FUN to be around. There are exceptions to everything. Like when we spoke of the security measures, & I laid out a list of who can't be with us. It was strict. The I mused about it, & this list would have removed my own spiritual husband, Nick, as he was a drug addict. And so, as the officers go through the scrutiny they must also interview the men personally on a casual basis, think & pray, & some men, although they fail the scrutiny, will be allowed in. Some will be technically 'no good' but the officers might hear a word from God which says, 'let him in.' We are a thoughtful, mystical, God centered group which goes by yardsticks beyond physical. After all, many Saints applied to several monsteries or convents & were rejected, until finally, they found one that would take them in. I think of Saint Faustina, my countrywoman, the Sister who brought us the devotion of Divine Mercy. Many others were not wanted like St. Joseph Copertino was considered 'simple minded' & they believed he would not pass the priesthood test. But the Pope let him in without a test! He could LEVITATE! Then St. Francis of Assissi could not get an audience with the Pope. But one day after he prayed, the two armed guard at the gate looked the other way, he got in & spoke to the Pope & got his Order approved. Thanks for your thoughtful comments & also the very incisive comments in the article! I shall put this on the website also, as it's vital......from Rasa

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    1. Thank you very much, Rasa. Very well-said overall.

      Best wishes,
      Pete

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    2. And you're very welcome as well, Rasa :)

      I would also like to add that there could perhaps be different LEVELS of security clearances, for both Members and (Lay) Associates, with passing higher levels of scrutiny resulting in more privileges. It need not be a binary. Just for the sake of example:

      Level 0 (no clearance at all)
      Level 1: New Associate or Low Associate (lowest clearance)
      Level 2: Associate
      Level 3: New Member
      Level 4: Third Order Member
      Level 5: Full Member
      Level 6: Leader or Elder

      And for those who have been formally banned and/or voluntarily excluded:

      Level X: Expelled or Blacklisted
      Level XA: Excommunicate and Anathema (aka Vitandi, completely banned shunned by all)

      This making it a matter of degree can allow for nuance and exceptions. Of course, only the lowest couple levels should be open to men, which goes without saying. Something to think about.

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    3. Another thing to add as well: even if Femdom men were not androcentric as it were, Femdom also has the problem of being very NICHE, and as such does not SCALE up very well. So it would really only be for a sliver of the population at best. William probably sees that niche as the trimtab on the rudder of the ship, so to speak, but I doubt that it would be enough by itself to turn the ship around.

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