Gynocentrism Is Beautiful

By Ajax the Great (Pete Jackson)

(Originally posted on my Vive La Difference! blog)

The word "gynocentrism" has been tossed around a lot in recent years, most notably by the "manosphere" (MRAs, PUAs, MGTOW, Red Pill Movement, and many tradcons as well), who claim it is a Very Bad Thing, because reasons.  In fact, in the  "manosphere bingo" memes, it is one of the most prominent spaces on the chart. 

Per Wikipedia, its definition is:

Gynocentrism is a dominant or exclusive focus on women in theory or practice. Anything can be gynocentric when it is considered exclusively with a female or feminist point of view in mind. The opposite practice, placing the masculine point of view at the centre, is androcentrism.

Thus, gynocentrism is centering, and thus prioritizing, Women and their perspectives.  And that is somehow a bad thing because? 

News flash, our species, that is the entire human race, is a gynocentric species.  It is literally baked into the DNA of both primary genders.  In psychology, it is called the "Women are wonderful" effect, which is consistently observed in both Women and men, often implicitly and subconsciously, no matter how much the patriarchy has tried to stamp it out.  It is NOT the result of some shadowy conspiracy per the Red Pill movement or whatever, but rather simply what Mother Nature wants, and for the most prosaic of reasons:  to better ensure the survival of the species.  Think about it.  Women are the limiting factor in reproduction.  As the saying goes, "eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap", as true now as it always was, even if men's pop-culture hot takes (like the book by the same name) get it at least largely wrong.  Thus, prioritizing Women would obviously lead to far greater Darwinian reproductive success than prioritizing men.

That's not to say that the patriarchy hasn't also historically (and also currently) weaponized gynocentrism as well against Women.  Since men obviously cannot stamp it out entirely, try as they may, they have taken to pervert it into "benevolent sexism", which is the velvet glove to hostile sexism's iron fist.  Granted.  But that weaponization should really be seen as the perversion that it is, not as gynocentrism per se.

And since gynocentrism is a built-in feature of both genders, prioritizing Women actually promotes better intergender bonding, and thus better gender relations overall.  (If nothing else, we can bond over that.) Androcentrism, on the other hand, can only drive a wedge between Women and men.

Remember, fellas, it's in your best interest as well.  Female happiness is highly contagious.  And so too is their misery. 

Thus, we should all reclaim gynocentrism as a Very Good Thing.  After all, it is what Mother Nature wants.  Shout if from the rootfops:  "Gynocentrism is beautiful!"

Excellent article by Celeste Davis

(Courtesy of Ajax the Great (Pete Jackson))

An excellent new article by the ever-insightful Celeste Davis is certainly worth a read.  Titled "Do you not like sex, or do you just not like patriarchal sex?", it explains well the crucial differences between male-defined sexuality versus female-defined sexuality.  Spoiler alert: male-defined sexuality is rather one-sided, and Women generally do not like it one-sided.  Female-defined sexuality, on the other hand, is mutually beneficial for both genders.  Thus it makes far more sense to center Women in sex than it does to center men.  

In other news, water is wet, and the sun rises in the east and sets in the west, of course.  But far too many people still don't seem to fully dig that.  And Davis explains it brilliantly.

Excellent Article by Dr. Kirti Patel

(Courtesy of Ajax the Great (Pete Jackson))

Check out this excellent article by Dr. Kirti Patel about Matriarchy (or as she calls it, Gynarchy):

https://buymeacoffee.com/matriarchytimes/exploring-gynarchy-dr-kirti-patel-on-creating-future-beyond-patriarchy

She really makes some excellent points indeed.

Heaven & Purgatory

 

Several dreams re a soul in Purgatory Lifted up, Franco Columbu, & the Tale of Richard Burton & Liz Taylor

 

10-18-24 Ascension of young female

 

          Dream has a longish preamble. My brother is here & I’m annoyed, as he’s a ‘ner’do’well & seems to get help within our family – not deservedly. Just now he’s asked Dad for $3,000 & is receiving it! I see him walking here to the right, Dad following – why is Dad spoiling him? I ponder.

          Next, some sort of a treat – we’re being taken for pizza. I see this beautiful convertible car & it has 4 bucket seats, driver, passenger, & the 2 seats behind. The upholstery looks expensive, maybe leather. It’s red with furrows. My family members get in– each seat is taken. One of the members is a female but who she is I don’t know, has sort of pageboy style hair to her shoulders.

          When I see the seating situation & that I would have to squeeze in with one of my family members – God forbid my bro whom I can’t stand, I jut say,

          “I pass,”

          And allow them to go without me.

          I return to the house. It’s fairly roomy & decently appointed. But as I stand in the entrance, looking down a set of stairs to the street, this happens -& it occurs right after my family leaves, within seconds:

          A hearse has arrived in the street, & several family members walk up the stairs to see me. A mature man has black under one of his eyes from grieving. Don’t see the others clearly, but they’ve all come to announce the death of a young female family member.

          As I stand there, notice I’m wearing my ‘gold’ dress – completely covered with gold sequins.  At first I see their sorrow & sadness, but quickly I look up to Heaven & raise my arms upward,

“She has died & is already in Heaven – rejoice.”

I begin to dance, I think the others do also. I try my trick of being “upside down”, one of my fave dance moves in dreams – but can’t do it as my legs are too heavy.   {End}

MEANING:

*{For sure, someone has risen up to Heaven & the family has come to me to announce her death. But I tell them not to grieve, as she’s already in Heaven – no Purgatory! My Golden Dress means LOVE. This might be saying the LOVE that was transmitted to her instantly lifted her into Glory. It could be the effective St. Gertrude prayers I’m saying first thing each morning.

The preamble I need time to think about. What does it have to do with my earthly family & brother?}*   {End}

 

10-17-24 ‘James Brown’ is Franco Columbu in Purgatory

 

This dream bothered me so much I didn’t want to record it. But then I understood its meaning & it was actually good, so here it is.

James Brown is in town & I want to see him, but he’s usually with so many crowds & people, hard to get to But somehow I time it right & appear in front of him when he’s all alone & I greet him. I tell him my name but not sure if he recalls it, but then I take off my white shaggy fur coat to show him my body – then he recognizes me.  He has on a similar coat.

I’m wearing an outfit from long ago before I redecorated my apt. I went to the furniture store & when the sales man saw me take off my coat – he was so impressed with my body he got the manager to wait on me!

The outfit is some sort of brown skirt with brown suspenders & the top is a silky royal blue turtleneck.

When he sees my body he immediately knows who I am.

He looks unusual, not at all like the real James Brown. He has on a wig that has thick gray sausage’ curls but the curls aren’t hollow; they’re thick & also frizzy. The wig is big & thick – he isn’t tall – about my height.  His clothing is a few different layers & his expression is rather blank – like one who is not stimulated – no expression.

I really want to talk to him but then this mental case guy shows up he interferes. He might be a spirit as I see him in the air with only a partial body & I fight with him to try & get rid of him. He reminds me of an alcoholic/ex-drug addict who introduced me to the bars when I had to become a cougar. By the time the conflict is over, James is gone & I must go searching for him.

When I do find him he is amidst a crowd of people, signing autographs & such. Somehow I know he’s DEAD, so why is he still surrounded by fans?

When he’s like this I can’t get through to him.

The end is just frustration, can’t recall what else.   {End}

MEANING:

*{This is Franco Columbu in Purgatory & it describes what holds him there.  It’s his ATTACHMENT TO HIS LIFE & CAREER, thinking he was a major star – he wasn’t. In the body building world he was, but mainstream no. He was seen, at least to me, as the slave & submissive of Arnold, always in his shadow, having small parts in many of his movies, appearing with him on stage, being his best man – all that. He was the friend & supporter of a big star, but not one himself. That COULD be why he appears as James Brown – as he WAS a great star, standing on his own two feet, not in the shadow of anyone nor assisted by anyone else’s celebrity.

That is one delusion Franco has to give up. But nevertheless, even the great stars, like Elvis, were attached to their careers & had to be separated from this until they could rise up to Heaven – so either way, big star, little star or a nobody attached to their former life – they all have to be set free.

I discussed this with Franco a lot today, or rather, explained it to him.

I’ve been saying the Gregorian Masses for him, which is 30 in a row, & because of that, have come closer to his environment in Purgatory.  

The wig reminds me of those ancient wigs the judges in Englad wear – this could also be saying this is the judgment upon him, the attachment thereof.

My connecting with him is the same as God – because it’s God’s Grace that I’m transmitting. And it shows a negative person, one mentally ill {as this man he reminds me of in real life was} - when this spirit or cluster of thoughts takes ‘James’ aka Franco over, I cannot relate with him – I cannot transmit Grace to him! He disappears to me.  He’s lost in his delusionary thoughts of his great stardom.   {end}.

 

 

About 10-11-2024:  Man flies through the air to me – this & the next dream are related, both the situation of Richard Burton & Liz Taylor

 

This dream is over a week old & I was too busy to record it.  I see a beautiful radiant male in the air, with a white radiant jacket.  He flies through the air toward me & when we meet, he makes love to me or transmits love – I see no physical action, just the powerful spirit of love.

This happens several different times & it’s ecstatic.

He appears again, but this time he is stationary & covered with a black plastic, vinyl shiny material, like his physical self is only a foot & a half long covered with this material ‘he’s only like a stick figure.

And I say to him,

“No kiss for me today?”

And he says,

“Haven’t you had enough”

This bothered me so much I didn’t want to record it, but here it is.

MEANING:

*{At first I thought it was about myself & Nick but when all is said & done, it cannot be, because after death he is united to my soul forever, so no, he would not say that to me.  But I saw how Liz Tayor related to Burton the way I did to Nick – her world revolved around him, she was obsessed – he not so – he obsessed with his career – while my Nick was addicted to drugs They each had another God.

But in death, Nick did fly to me.

But in this, Richard does not fly to Liz, he wants to get away from her. In his retirement with his last wife, far away in Switzerland, he wanted escape from Liz & his career & all she put him through. Yes, she made him an incredibly high paying star – because of her celebrity, & he cashed in on that – but it would make anyone weary after a while & he wanted out.  But she did not want out.  So this shows the story.}   {End}  

 

About Oct 11, 2024  Is this Richard Burton & Liz?

 

I see a man who wants to be left alone, to escape this lady. He has gone off but she has a detective who watches his every move & reports to her his activities daily, & is even told to photograph him & transmit this to her.

I see the man going through an area on his way to ‘hide’ or be private. He has a mustache & beard I see from far away. I try to get his attention.

So before he goes through the door to be private & shut it, I say to him,

“Do you remember Brighteon?”

And then he looks toward me & that’s it, he goes his way past that door.

And I tell them that was the only way I could get him to look toward me, when I said that word.

MEANING:

*{See the meaning of the previous dream – this is what I call ‘parrallel dreams,’ & these have the same meaning.}*   {End}

 

Around 10 - 9 – 2024 re new book success

 

I have parked in the parking lot where I used to at my apt in town, when I was a cougar. To my right is parked a shiny, beautiful black car resplendent with lots of chrome & shining like anything, sparkling, brand new.

MEANING: *{This is the new book which will be a GREAT SUCCESS. It’s black because it’s toward the end of my life, like the capstone on the pyramid – the pyramid being the tomb of a great person, the capstone ‘caps’ their life. So this book, on my cougar days & other parts, will be so.}*

 

         

 

Richard Burton Ascends after 40 years!

 

 Richard Burton ascends! with 3 other unknown souls

Later my best lady friend ascends!

Richard Burton-James Brown experiences

 

         Richard I saw yesterday {9-28-24} & am thinking it’s his ASCENSION. If so that means he’s been attached to my Portal for a time, receiving its Anointing to ascend. It goes like this:

         I see Richard Burton standing by a long window that might be a kitchen because the curtain is not all the way up, halfway {café curtain}, - it’s WHITE COTTON. Richard is to the side & seems to be MOVING THE CURTAIN.

         Died: August 5, 1984 (age 58 years), Céligny, Switzerland

         If this is his Ascension he was in Purgatory 40 years, 22 days.  It’s a long stretch.

 My first husband Stanley Everts, holds the record of anyone I helped @ 55 years. He was truly evil in his heart as he tried to strangle me twice & held a grudge of hate against me at least 30 years in Purgatory, when I asked God not to show hime to me any more. When I finally relented & said you can show me him now, that very day he did Ascend.

It’s hard to imagine Richard Burton in Purgatory that long, after seeing him in “The Robe”. But he was a great actor & this was not reality, so he could be far from God inside. 

If it is his Ascension then it goes like this:

*{Richard is MOVING THE VEIL to announce his ascension. It’s the kitchen because thi sis the old farmhouse, & the table we used for eating all our daily meals was right there in the corner, with windows on both sides of the corner. And so, this would indicate Richard had been receiving benefit from my DAILY MASSES.

This might also explain why I was having nightmarish/struggling dreams all night for 2 nights – the 26^th & 27^th, penance I shared to transmit Grace – that’s a maybe. 

ALTERNATIVE MEANING:

Richard Burton is communicating with me from Heaven, moving the curtain. CURTAIN is the SYMBOL of the closure between us & the other side – mystical side which we usually don’t see or relate to. Could be Purgatory or Heaven, or even Hell.

If so, what would his message be? I don’t see a message & so it seems more likely the first interpretation is correct.}*

PS Today is the 29^th & I now recall a scene from one of the long, nightmarish dreams I had for 2 days before Richard ascended. It goes like this:

I’ve been struggling to take 4 people somewhere, a place like ‘home’ or where we belong, but it’s been rough going. Right now we’re facing a river that seems OK, it’s narrow at this spot & seems to have ice over it, we can cross, & our goal is somewhere on the other side. But then I notice the ‘ice’ is covered with mushy snow & I discern that the ice underneath is not solid, & if we try to cross here we’ll all drown.

I have another idea. I just recalled I can FLY.

‘But I can only take ONE of you for that,’

I tell them as I hold the chosen one close to my shoulder & heart. The other 3, sadly, will be left behind.

But then I see, to my delight, to the right of the place we were planning to cross, a bridge made of huge solid rocks, maybe 4 rocks here, which are about 10’ square, & that deep also.  Cold water is splashing over them but this is solid, & I tell us friends to let’s cross & we go.   {End}

*{These 4 people are souls in Purgatory that I’ve been struggling to get ‘across’ to God. The one I’m holding dear, that I choose to favor, could be Richard Burton. The part about FLYING is my Anointing, sailing to Heaven, taking Richard there, on my spiritual Power. But I could only take him, not the other 3 that way. But then I see that rock bridge.

Notable that the rock bridge seems to have FOUR huge rocks as described which make up the bridge. That means that EACH SOUL GOT A MASS equivalent to a huge rock {Christ’s Body & Blood} that gets them across to God – it’s stronger than anything.

What is the original place we thought was ice we could walk over? But upon second consideration I see the danger.

That would be getting over on one’s own strength – impossible. We need the SUPERNATURAL Grace of God.

Rocks hearken to ‘the Rock of Christ’ & that’s in the Eucharist. With the Eucharist, saying the Holy Mass each day, I can get all 4 of these souls across into Heaven - & I DID – I see me walking them over the bridge to THE OTHER SIDE which is the SPIRITUAL REALM OF GOD.

But except for Richard, I don’t know who these souls are.}*

 

         Channeling Richard Burton

 

I asked him today what kind of sins kept him in Purgatory so long?

He said the sins of pride – egomania. He only thought about himself, life revolved around him.  God was third or fourth he only remembered or called on God for good luck with his performances.

He took his great talent for granted – it was a gift he did not acknowledge God for, he felt it was his & his alone, from God.

His whole world was me, myself & I.

I asked why was he saved then, & what about the multi-million dollar ring he gave Elizabeth?

He said he was saved because he did render God some respect deep in his heart but he did little about it. He got in Purgatory what he gave to God – God returned to him what She was given – very little love for a long time.

And Elizabeth, he said he USED her. His fame increased a hundred fold when they began their affair, he made that much more money & he’d contact her wherever he was when he needed her to up the gate. The money was a ‘kickback’ of sorts, & he says it cost much less than what Liz sold it for, she made it famous, & he knew it would bring ever more publicity & therefore more jobs & more bread in his pocket.

He did most of his activities for a return – they weren’t charity – he didn’t have much of that.  {will channel him more later after I study him a bit & will know some questions. I know almost nothing about him, except in relation to Elizabeth & his movies. I think most of us know him through Liz, besides his films, Liz gave him the greatest publicity of his career.

Was his love for her true? He loved her beauty & sex appeal but God’s love? – Not much.} {End}

 

Communicate with James Brown in Heaven

 

I’m with James Brown, & I embrace him from the back. His hair is Afro - very full & soft, & I rest my head on it, the right cheek.

And I say to him,

“I would like to see you. Would you like to see me?”

Then great interference occurs where I cannot hear him at all, it goes on for two units of time, like 2 hours or 2 days. I thought the DELAY might make him ‘hang up’ as if we were on the phone – but it didn’t.

  It finally stops before I can hear his answer, & he says,

“Yes.”

*{So he does have good feelings for me – after all these years.  Since he’s in Heaven – he ascended Dec. 21, 2023 – 17 years in Purgatory.

I might add that he transmitted to me some feelings of sorrow for his treatment of me after I heard by audio tape:  “Fifty years a Slave” – the life of Charles Ball.  I was astonished, impressed & sympathetic to the max over this account – even moreso than several other slave stories I had listened to. This touched James when he realized how much I cared.

HAIR represents THOUGHTS as it comes OUT OF THE HEAD. So here it would be full, rich, soft thoughts toward me & my resting my head on his hair is resting or being comforted by his thoughts.

What is the DELAY as to meaning? It took him a LONG TIME to understand there was true love coming from me & to repent of his treatment of me. Finally, after so many years, e does. After all, I met him when I was 19 & the affair dragged on unmercifully for years of TORTURE.  The last time he stood me up I was dancing at the Melody Burlesque Theater in NYC maybe 1978.}*

 

Best Lady Friend Ascends 10-8-24

 

         I did NOT expect this!  Been working for the late Queen Elizabeth II & her consort Prince Philip, doing Masses for them every day. Then I thought of two people I know still in Purgatory – Mary Jane Mulligan & Franco Columbu. I thought here I am helping people I never even knew while two people I know are still there – let me kick it up & help them as well.

         I couldn’t say more than 2 Masses

a day, but I began to pray each day for the 2 souls & promising them I would start Masses for them after I finished the Gregorians {30 in a row} for Elizabeth & Philip. The friends were on my mind each day for about a week. Then I had this dream:

         Many scenes. In one I am getting dressed up my best & going to some clubs or bars & doing good dancing, but no one pays attention to me!

         Then I go back to where I’m staying – there’s 2 dwellings next to each other.  In one of them a lady friend is standing there & says to me,

         “You are invited to the SHINDIG!  I didn’t know abut this shindig & told her so, & I ask her if our friend, this guy is also going, & she says no.  I surmised he wasn’t ready.

         I see him below us with a kind of darkish skin {spiritual, not race.}

         My friend looks beautiful, thin, wearing a white sleek, form  fitting dress. Soft Jersey type material, which has a 6 or 8” fringe hanging from the neckline, the neckline is a large V.  I tell her I have a dress just like that but without the fringe. So yes, I can be suitably attired for the party.

         There were other scenes but I’ll skip them now.

         MEANING:

         *{Mary Jane has ascended after 2 years, 11 months & 13 days!  And the man I ask about is Franco – who is still in spiritual dark ness, cannot ascend yet.

          Her dress is the Bridal Gown {brides of Christ, married to God} & the SHINDIG is the celebration of her Ascension!

          The WHITE in this case is like the innocent lamb. The FRINGE I just have an instinct stands for FEATHERS which would be FLIGHT.  I say I have a suitable dress/spiritual garment but without the fringe because I’m not going to FLY into Heaven with her!

          I asked Mary Jane which prayers served her the best, & they were the St. Gertrude prayers which invoke all the Masses throughout the entire world, & get what can be gleaned from them for my clients. To that I add the sufferings on earth – that all the grace thereof would be transmitted to my clients, which can be spared for them, & the same with all the charity on earth. I say these prayers daily now as they are effective more than anything else I know.

          Mary Jane & I have been talking all day & one of the things she said was,

          “If it was not for what you did I would have been there 2-3 more years.”

          I am absolutely over the moon by her release & entrance into Happiness.  Will explain many things she said concerning what she had to pay for – at another time.  {End}