Sunday, 10 September 2023

Another Matriarchy

 

The Matriarchal Garo of India

 from Rasa Von Werder

 

It seems to me there’s a great cover-up re Matriarchal & Matrilineal information.  What we get mostly is the Mosuos in China & little else.  But upon further research I see so far, two American Indian groups are Matriarchal {possibly all of them are, these are just the ones I saw on Peter Santenello’s Podcasts where the intervied claims the women ruling} – there are African such societies, there are others.  So just now I find this – never heard of it before.  Mind you, the Patriarchs want us to believe THERE IS NO SUCH THING, if it exists, it’s on its way out as the Patriarchy invades it & swallows it up. They want us to have no keys, icons or examples for more Matriarchies to be spawned.  Fie on them.  





Orientation

Identification. The Garos living in the East and West Garo Hills districts of Meghalaya in northeastern India speak the Garo dialect. They are one of the best-known matrilineal groups in India. Here the Garos are not just another aboriginal tribe—they are the major aboriginal tribe. Others are the Hajong, the Koch, the Rabha, the Dalau, and the Banais who reside on the adjacent plains of the neighboring district. There remains an obscurity about the origin of the word "Garo." They are known as "Garos" to outsiders; but the Garos always designate themselves as "Achik" (hill men). The Garos are divided into nine subtribes: the Awe, Chisak, Matchi-Dual, Matabeng, Ambeng, Ruga-Chibox, Gara-Ganching, Atong, and the Megam. These are geographic subtribes, but they are also dialectal and subcultural groups. According to their beliefs and religion, the Garos are divided into the "Songsarek" (those who follow indigenous beliefs and practices) and the Christians.

Location. The two Garo Hills districts are situated Between 25°9′ and 26°1′N and 89°49′ and 91°2′E, covering an area of 8,000 square kilometers. The districts border Bangladesh on the south and west and Assam on the north. Hills cover most of the district, with some adjacent fringes of plains bordering the monsoon area, producing thick vegetation on the hills. There are a number of hilly streams and rivers; Except for the Simsang River, which forms a wide floodplain, none is navigable.

Demography. According to the census of India for 1971, Garos numbered 342,474. Christian Garos were 54.3 percent of the total Garo population; now they may be more than 60 percent of the total Garo population.




Linguistic Affiliation. According to Sir George Grierson's classification in The Linguistic Survey of India, Garo belongs to the Bodo Subsection of the Bodo-Naga Section, under the Assam-Burma Group of the Sino-Tibetan or Tibeto-Burman Language Family.………………………………………………………..

Rasa says:

Wikipedia has a great account of this – the part where they say matrilineal is NOT to be confused with Matriarchal, take that with a GRAIN OF SALT.  The PROPERTY of the Mother is automatically handed down to the youngest daughter – which is the OPPOSITE of patriarchy.  It was partially through men handing down all their property to SONS instead of wives & daughters that disempowered women financially & put money & property into the hands of men.  This transaction put WOMEN on bended knees to get resources.

Notice that the English ‘East India’ trading country came & invaded these people by FORCE OF ARMS:  Artillery, canons.  How could the men defend their community with primitive weapons?  And of course, the religious indoctrination / brainwashing follows.  What is the reason for the religious interference?  Same as always.  Take away THEIR IDENTITY, the holding on to who they are, what they believe from their ancestors.  Tell them they’re stupid, they don’t know what God is, impose on them our ideas, which are superior.  We know God, they don’t.  Make them feel INFERIOR & INADEQUATE in their beliefs, get them to feel insecure, take away their confidence, their birthright identity, their righteous pride.  Make them grovel to us, feel inadequate to us, obey us:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Garo_people#:~:text=Garo%20is%20a%20matrilineal%20society,been%20greatly%20influenced%20by%20Christianity.

Some of the article:

The Garo people are a Tibeto-Burmese ethnic group inhabiting predominantly in Northeast Indian states of MeghalayaAssamTripura and Nagaland, and in some neighbouring areas of Bangladesh. Historically, the name Garo was used for a large number of different peoples living on the southern bank of Brahmaputra river, but now refers primarily to those who call themselves A•chik Mande (literally "hill people," from A•chik "bite soil" + mande "people") or simply A•chik or Mande and the name "Garo" is now being used by outsiders as an exonym.[4] They are the second-largest tribe in Meghalaya after the Khasi and comprise about a third of the local population.




Religion similar to Wicca {says Rasa}

Many of the Garo community follow Christianity,[5] with some rural pockets practising traditional animist religion known as Songsarek. It is argued that the indigenous groups who settled in the Garo Hills brought their ancient animistic religious beliefs and practices, with deities who must be appeased with rituals, ceremonies and animal sacrifices to ensure the welfare of the tribe. 

 

Most Garo festivals are based on the agricultural cycle of crops. The harvesting festival Wangala is the biggest celebration of the tribe happening in the month of October or November every year. It is the thanksgiving after harvest in the honor of the god Saljong, provider of nature's bounties.

History

According to one oral tradition, the Garo first migrated to the Garo Hills from Tibet (referred to as Tibotgre) around 400 BC under the leadership of Jappa Jalimpa, crossing the Brahmaputra River (Songdu Chibima) and tentatively settling in the river valley. The Garo finally settled down in Garo Hills (East-West Garo Hills), finding providence and security in this uncharted territory and claiming it as their own.  {Below:  They call them 'brutal' & BLOOD THIRSTY SAVAGES?  It is YOU WESTERNERS who came here, invaded them with guns & cannons.  Who is brutal & blood thirsty savages?  You - not them.  All they did was defend themselves with primitive weapons.  And you FORCED your religion on them.  YOU are the EVIL ONES.} Records of the tribe by expanding Mughal armies and by East India Company officials in what is now Bangladesh wrote of the brutality of the people.

The earliest written records about the Garo date from around 1800, and were written by officials of the East India Company. They "...were looked upon as bloodthirsty savages, who inhabited a tract of hills covered with almost impenetrable jungle, the climate of which was considered so deadly as to make it impossible for a white man to live there".[9]

In December 1872, the British Raj dispatched a military expedition to Garo Hills to establish control over the region. The campaign was conducted from three sides – south, east, and west. The Garo warriors (matgriks) confronted them at the Battle of Rongrenggre equipped with spears, swords, and shields. They were defeated in the engagement, as the Garo did not have guns or mortars like the British Indian Army.[citation needed] By the early 1900s, the American Baptist Mission was active in the area, working from Tura, Meghalaya.[10] 






The Garo are one of the few remaining matrilineal societies in the world. The individuals take their clan titles from their mothers. Traditionally, the youngest daughter (nokmechik) inherits the property from her mother. Sons leave their parents' house at puberty and are trained in the village bachelor dormitory (nokpante). After getting married, the man lives in his wife's house.

Professions:

The Garo rely on nature. Their profession is hunting and warrior known as Matgrik. They practice jhum cultivation which is the most common agricultural tradition. For more than 4,000 years, until modern times, the Garo have been practicing jhum cultivation. Since the middle of the twentieth century, most Garo work in private industry or have government jobs. There is coal mining in the area, {this could explain why the East India-British Company INVADED these people with force of arms, murdering some of them, in order to gain the coal industry.  I would like to know who in what way, runs the coal business.  No doubt Westerners, stealing all the profits & leaving the people as slaves underground, doing all the hard & dangerous work} as well as the cultivation of bananas and other fruits.

Rasa says:  notice the INTERFERENCE with their culture.  It’s now all English due to invasion & colonization.  When the Russians took over my country, Lithuania, in WWII, Russian became the official language in school.  When my cousin visited from Lithuania she spoke fluent Russian as well as Lithuanian.  Of course, since our independence in 1991, the Russian impositions ended.  The interference is endless, I’m sure this article doesn’t cover it all:

Continue Wikipedia:  The Garo language belongs to the Tibeto-Burman language family. The brief lists of Garo words were compiled by East India Company officials in 1800, and Garo acquired a Latin-based spelling system during the late 19th century, devised by American Baptist missionaries and based on a northeastern dialect of Garo. The first translation of the Garo Bible was published in 1924. The modern official language in schools and government offices is English.












 

Tuesday, 29 August 2023

James Brown Repents Over Me

 

James Brown Understands –Repents of Hurting Me  8-29-23

 

         Upon waking with this dream I was baffled & spent an hour in bed going over it, then it made sense.

         I am on the street & realize James Brown is chasing me.  There’s no reason why but I’m afraid & I run like Hell.  There are many shops on the way & I run into one that is convenient.  The pharmacist is usually there; thank God he’s here now.  It’s just a small plain store with a counter against the back wall, everything light, & I exclaim,

         “Call the police”

         And I see him dial ‘911.’

         He’s wearing a white coat.

         Wow, I’m glad to be in here as I feared James wanted to do me harm – very afraid.



         But as long as I stay here I’m safe, he won’t DARE come into the shop to hurt me.

         I see him sitting across the street.  He is waiting for me to come out.  Every 2-3 minutes he looks up to see if I’m still here.

         He was wearing a strange outfit, a suit made of thick soft olive green wool – very conservative, not like him at all.

         After a while he’s warm, takes off the jacket & changes his position.  He’s more to the right, & now I see he’s got on a very bright blue sweater vest, sitting there facing right.  His head is BALD.

         The pharmacist changes into a woman & seems to be in love with me.  He/she wants to hug me, climbs over the counter & does so, several different times while I’m here.  But it’s kind of embarrassing because as a woman he has large breasts just like me & when we hug our chests touch.  That’s slightly uncomfortable.

         Another friend gets involved.  She comes into the pharmacy—not to buy anything, but to help me.  She’s that Wicca lady who once long ago {2010} sent me a love charm & love spell – can’t think of her name!  Let’s call her Cathy.  She’s wearing dark clothes, a short but full skirt & glasses.  She’s big – not fat – tall & large boned.

         We three are thinking how to deliver me from James & his pursuit.  The pharmacist tells me,

         “I own an apt building where you can go & hide out for a while.” 

         And he adds,

         “It’s a luxury building.”

         But we have to make a run for it, quickly leave the store & run with all our might, hoping James did not see me & starts running too late to catch me.  Why there were no police I don’t know.

         So we alight into the street & run, I am going so fast I leave my pharmacist & Cathy behind me.  We go for a while, fast as lightning, & make a right turn & appear in an unexpected place, in front of a house that is not what I expected.  This is the place I will hide.


         It’s not a building or luxury apt building, it’s a house off from the city, there seems to be something like an old railroad track behind it to the left, then wide open spaces.  It’s a one story house {I think again & again, not burglar proof, safer to be up on a 2nd or higher floor}, painted dark red, small, modest, & it even has a clothesline in front of it, about 50’ long going from one side of the house to the other, where the line crosses the front of the house there is no laundry hanging, but to the left & right of the house, laundry hangs – all white – like flags almost – laundry not close but with several feet between each piece.  So different than what I imagined.





         At this point it seems like the pharmacist & Cathy kind of fade away & I’m imagining the rest.

         My imagination puts a widow here, whose husband left her for another woman, took half their money & left.  But after a couple years he died.  She had a job & kept working it to survive, but after he died she got a pension so survival was OK.

         This lady is very nice.  The pharm told her he’d give her half a month rent off for hiding me for a while {until we believes James will tire of looking for me}.  I’d get room & board but if I want to, I can get my own food from town.

         She welcomes my presence as someone to talk to for a while as she’s all alone.  All her children & grandchildren live in other states & there isn’t much communication.

         And I imagine where we turned off the main road & came here, James wouldn’t be able to find me, I’m safe. 

         Meaning:

                 It’s been a while since James, with my help, ascended into Heaven.  {He died Dec 15, 2006 & I did not even know he was dead until about 4 years later.  He appeared, I gave him the Sacred Kiss, his Guardian Angel immediately took him to Heaven.}

         Apparently their comprehension isn’t instant, during what we call time; they come to understand things they originally did not.

         What he’s come to realize is that when I chased him – which frightened him & he ran like crazy & that ended our relationship – it was because I was suffering from the disorder of PTSD – from the abandonment of my Dad & abuse of my Mom.

         My need for love was so intense it caused me to chase whomever I loved because of anxiety, a sickness.  As soon as I loved someone this disorder would kick in – it’s happened dozens of times, to various degrees, with him it was bad.

         My fear is only a parallel to his fear, when I, for instance, chased his limo & another car through the Hollywood Hills after he performed at the Hollywood Bowl.  They at one point stopped both cars, had a conference, & decided to split up.  But I guessed he was in the limo, stayed behind that until he got to the hotel – I think the name was Ciro’s – close to the Whiskey A Go Go on Sunset Blvd, pulled in right behind them & there saw James exit the vehicle with a tall brunette he’d picked up for the night.  This is not the point of the dream, the point is something else.

         It is to say that he finally understand my plight & he regrets hurting me.

         This plight is shown in his BALDNESS which is when a person loses their sanity.

         And second, he takes off the olive jacket & there sports a bright blue sweater vest.  The blueness is sorrow.  He’s now sorry he hurt me, as he didn’t understand my emotions & rejected me because of his fear – the fear I feel in the dream.

         The thick, fuzzy olive suit is ‘army green,’ which shows his defensiveness. When he removed the jacket or his defensiveness you see revealed the sorrow for what he did.

         The pharmacist represents I am sick & need meds for anxiety – which I did not take.  When he turns into a woman & hugs me shows how much I needed love from my Mom, but did not get it.  Both parents depriving me of love was a hard road to take.

         Now the end is the end of my life, where I find PEACE. 

         The white clothing hanging there means this: 

         What does a white scarf mean?

Khata (Hada) is a fabric scarf used for gifts by Tibetan people and Mongolian. The meaning of the Khata scarf is good wishes and respect. In Tibetan monasteries, Khatas mean greetings to monks and Buddha. The Tibetan scarfs' colors are fixed. The most common color is white, as auspicious as Tibet's snow. 

         This ‘hanging laundry’ means ‘peace’ & ‘welcome’ to me.  It is my RESIDENCE / LIFE today.

         I GOT AWAY from being in love with earthly beings like James & others by conquering the anxiety.  This happened finally after the last lover, Nick.  I did rise above my human disorder when I forced myself to stop obsessing.  It took 2 years of absence from him on purpose, denying myself the urge to chase him.  So I was free at last.

         The other statements I imagine are simply explaining how I love today – alone & happy.  Family far away & sometimes desiring company, but nothing extreme.

         Question:  Why did the pharmacist mislead me as to my destination & why is my house painted dark red, & only one floor where in real life there’s more than one?

         Actually, the one floor house, out of the way, shows no anxiety, because in dreams, the symbol of being high up like on bridges, elevators means anxiety.  You are SAFE by being ‘out of the way,’ not in the spotlight, not with people, alone.  Being alone is your safest spot, they can’t get to you, they can’t hurt you.

          Why did he suddenly appear to me after several years & show his regret?  Might be because for the last 2 weeks I’ve listened to over 50 hours of accounts of the suffering of American slaves, as well as the history of it & neo-slavery – {the laws passed after the civil war which kept people without human rights & rendered them into involuntary servitude} - & I have great compassion for the people victimized.













Checked dress:  The time I dated James Brown