Rasa & William Speak re Abortion

 

William Bond Pro Choice

 Hi Rasa and Pete:

To give my opinion on abortion, is that the people who strongly condemn abortion are the same people who also condemn birth control. I agree that abortion is a awful thing but but the way to prevent this is not to make it illegal but stop the causes of abortion.  

So if we are serious about preventing abortion then would make birth control freely available. We would also give children proper sex education where they know and understand the end result of having sex. And we would strengthen rape laws and enforcement so a women is not forced to have a rapist child or hove to go through abortion because of rape. We would also support women who do have children so they won’t feel they need abortion because of poverty.      William 

Pete replies:

          Very well said, William. That is very true indeed.  If we as a society really want to reduce the number of abortions, then we need to get to the root causes as you describe, rather than make it illegal which does more far harm than good. The forced-birthers are truly flaming hypocrites in that regard, and they put the cart before the horse. Thank you for insights, William. 

(For the record, I am 100% pro-choice, in case the reader was wondering.)

Rasa answers William:

Wow! You hit the nail on the head – no one has even mentioned that! You always see through the Emperor’s clothes!

Why would anyone be against birth control? Only the die-hard Patriarchs who want to keep women in slavery, Muslims & Catholics. They want to keep us barefoot & pregnant, in the harems, producing serial children – every year – when by nature, according to Dr. Bryan Sykes, leading geneticist, women should have a child no more than once every 5-6 years – which is the time needed to develop their immune system, stop breast feeding, & gain independence.

Do you know how much it takes to care for a child – nurture & train it in the fundamentals of survival & decency {like toilet training} – the first 6 years? It takes monumental time & energy for the Mom. And to have not one but more than one child – every year – makes it impossible for a female to do anything else, if she is the sole caretaker.

And so, getting women pregnant each year & forcing them to give birth means – unless she has help – she will be a slave-Mother – unable to have a career, a job – even a significant hobby {like becoming a sportswoman or painter}. Whatever else she does will be either impossible or difficult. Years ago I saw a book advertised ‘Why are there no women famous painters’ & I was puzzled until I realized the slavery of many children prevented them from doing anything else.

In the interviews I hear the anti-abortion folks saying “They are against life. They must understand children are a blessing given by God.”

Oh what Tom-foolery they speak. We know children are a blessing from God when we’re ready to have them, when the time is right, when we can handle the responsibility. But if forced upon us at other times – it’s not a blessing for us or them. It becomes a CROSS.

This was done to me at the age of 18 – a child was forced on me. My husband failed to use the birth control he usually employed {pull out & pray} ON PURPOSE – on our Honeymoon & within nine months I gave birth – way before I could handle it. The child had psychological problems – born that way – I don’t want to explain for reasons of privacy.

My husband had cancer & died, I was left with this Cross, alone, without mate or family. My family that I escaped – Mom & her vassals –were abusers. My Dad was OK but all of them were far away – they in New York, me in California. Eight years later I moved back to Dad & he did help.

This Cross was the kind that bends you over – if you know what I mean. I had to work & also take care of this child. Everyone blamed me for everything – I was the cause of her behavior, no one gave me a break, nothing I did was considered right. I was wrong for not being home & a full-time Mother but how was I to pay the bills? Welfare is not my speed – besides, welfare runs out - after 3 weeks you’re broke & the last week have not enough for sustenance. I had social security & it fared the same.

This experience made me sensitive to the plight of single mothers who have no mate or family. That is why I want to gear the New Order toward them – let’s hope it works.

And to make the point – those against birth control are right at the gate – wanting to force & fetter women with Crosses that will hinder them doing anything but child care  & they can’t even do that right because it takes a Village to raise a child. It takes a matriarchy to do so – you need other women around you to help. Yes, I said women, not men. Men often give more trouble than help. They intimidate, abuse, have sex with the children – away with them! Children need protection, not exploitation from men. Half the population is suffering with symptoms of being sexually abused by men, while at the same time suffering from attachment disorder due to not having enough Mothering. {How can you give all the Mothering needed when you’re drained & burned out?}

Some – {not all!} the “pro-life” have an AGENDA & if at the same time they are against birth control – They are guilty of woman abuse.

I do applaud those who PRAY against abortion & for the aborters to help them see the light – there’s noting wrong with that. Nothing wrong with picketing abortion clinics. Abortion should not be used as BIRTH CONTROL but by Heaven – give the women birth control!

 (Pete Says:  Indeed, Rasa, anyone who is against birth control is giving away their real agenda.  And that is a diabolical and patriarchal agenda to control Women and keep them down as breeding slaves.  And that truly must have been quite an ordeal for you to go through all of that, Rasa!) 

Rasa continues:

Issue of PREGNANCIES CAUSED BY DADS, Granddads & other men

 

          The pro lifers often want to win the argument & by ignoring WHY so many young women come for abortions. They act as if these females are just a bunch of promiscuous, irresponsible, good time Charlenes who keep getting pregnant for fun. What about the girls who’re being raped by Dads, Uncle, Granddads, brothers, & other men? This is rampant. Most of those seeking abortion are young – I’m guessing many of these are rapes.

          But pro lifers don’t speak of these cases – they say those seeking abortion are rare cases. No they are not.

          I am being fair to the other side. Women should not have sex for pleasure & use abortion as birth control. I met one like that. I felt she was insane. She just had a baby by this guy who gets everyone pregnant downtown {a big Don Juan} - & she went over his place & had sex again, no condom. Her roommate asked her what if she got pregnant again, & she said,

          “No problem – chop chop.”

          Oh you vile bitch – those are the kind that give pro choice a bad name. 

(Pete adds:  Fortunately, the vast majority of Women, at least in the USA and other "first world" countries in the 21st century, do NOT rely on abortion as a primary birth control method.  Even then, as a man I still hesitate to judge folks who do, but I am sure we can all agree that those who are so reckless and cavalier about it are, in a word, IDIOTS.  And yes, indeed they give the pro-choice movement a bad name, and in doing so give ammunition to the other side.)

Enough said. Education is the key & under & over it all – we need Matriarchy. We need safe space for women to keep from being pressured to have sex with men, from being raped; they need to be protected by a circle of women. Secondly, if & when they do get pregnant they need that same circle to help with the pregnancy, birth & child rearing. Patriarchy is the cause of this mess. End patriarchy, bring back Matriarchal Orders for a start & you are moving toward a righteous society.   Rasa

Pete's Final Thought:

Excellent and very well said, Rasa!  Amen to that! Keep up the great work, and God Bless you!