Dream about marriage & sex interpreted for a friend

3-5-20-HES GOOD HUSBAND I SAY WE WILL DO SEX

          John, my good husband, & I are standing around outside by the small bridge near the creek.  He is facing away from the creek toward me, is wearing a white t-shirt, his hair curly honey blonde.

          (BRIDGE, SMALL:  A TRANSITION, A CHANGE.

          CREEK:  CARRIES THE GRACE OF GOD OR GOOD FORTUNE

          FACING AWAY, FROM CREEK:  HE DOES NOT SEE THIS GRACE COMING, NOT AWARE.

 

          CURLY HAIR:  WORRIED {IT’LL CURL YOUR HAIR}

          HONEY BLONDE HAIR:  HE HAS SWEET THOUGHTS ABOUT ME.

          LOOKING AT ME:  THINKING ABOUT ME.

WHITE T-SHIRT:  HE WANTS MARRIAGE.  THE WHITE IS OVER HIS HEART.)

 

          This is like in real life, I’ve never had sex with John but a change has come over me.  I tell him, as I have thought it out,

         (CHANGE:  THIS EXPLAINS THE BRIDGE OR CHANGE, IT’S ABOUT SEX.

          I ASKED GOD TO GIVE ME A SIGN ABOUT WHEN TO START UP AGAIN & THE TIME IS COMING SOON.)

 

          “It seems that you aren’t happy & neither am I.”

          To myself I have thought about my revulsion to have sex with him – he doesn’t have any appeal to me.  But I’m going to force myself to desire him – how bad could it be?  I need sex & it might as well be my husband.  We could both be happy if I make myself do it.

 

          So I tell him I am going to allow him to do sex to me.  He is just listening, he’s passive.

          (PASSIVE:  AMENABLE, COOPERATIVE, SUBMISSIVE--TO ME IN THIS SITUATION.)

          I am wearing a white hat, the kind sailors wear, only the rim of it is wider than sailor’s.  It’s pushed back on my forehead; I seem to be adjusting it.  I don’t see any of the hair on my head, it’s under my hat.

 

          (UNDER MY HAT:  THIS IS A SECRET TO HIM, NOT TO ME.  MY THOUGHTS {HAIR} ABOUT IT ARE SECRET.

          HAT, WHITE:  MARRIAGE, MARRIAGE MINDED

          FOREHEAD, PUSHED BACK ON:  EXPOSING MY THOUGHTS OR DECISION.)

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SYMBOLS IN THE DREAM  OF 3-5-20

BRIDGE, SMALL:  A TRANSITION, A CHANGE.  A bridge takes us from one place to another, not necessarily to a physical place but mental, emotional or spiritual place.  It could also be any venue, any change, from one thing to another, like one job or project leading to another.  

 

          CREEK:  CARRIES THE GRACE OF GOD OR GOOD FORTUNE.  Water is often grace because we need water so badly, we couldn’t live without it, ditto for the Grace of God.

          FACING AWAY, FROM CREEK:  HE DOES NOT SEE THIS GRACE COMING, NOT AWARE.  This grace is something that will make him happy but he’s not aware it’s coming.

 

          CURLY HAIR:  WORRIED {IT’LL CURL YOUR HAIR.} Hair has to do with the mind or brain, as hair is coming ‘out of the head.’  It represents what comes out of our head, brain or mind.  Hair getting ‘curled’ is like a person cringing or retreating into themselves through stress—the opposite being free flowing & relaxed.  Curly hair is not relaxed.

          HONEY BLONDE HAIR:  HE HAS SWEET THOUGHTS ABOUT ME.  Honey is sweet.

          LOOKING AT ME:  THINKING ABOUT ME.  You are usually thinking about what you are looking at.

 

WHITE T-SHIRT:  HE WANTS MARRIAGE.  THE WHITE IS OVER HIS HEART.  White often represents marriage.  It can mean other things, but you interpret according to what is the dream about?  The dream is about a romantic relationship so this indicates marriage.

CHANGE:  THIS EXPLAINS THE BRIDGE OR CHANGE, IT’S ABOUT SEX.  From no sex (what he was worried about) to having sex.

           I ASKED GOD TO GIVE ME A SIGN ABOUT WHEN TO START UP AGAIN & THE TIME IS COMING SOON.  God or our unconscious often speaks to us through our dreams.  {Nightmares are usually from demons or demonic energies, or else our fears--could also be warnings from the Heavenly realm—I have had frightening warnings from God to stop doing something, & if not, God would ‘kill me.’  I obeyed & it was the right thing to do, which God knew would lead to dire consequences—but I was unaware.  God wanted no refusal on my part & stated her Will in no uncertain terms.}

 

PASSIVE:  AMENABLE, COOPERATIVE, SUBMISSIVE--TO ME IN THIS SITUATION.  Again, passive can be interpreted in other ways, always look to the content & meaning of the dream to apply the symbols.

 

UNDER MY HAT:  THIS IS A SECRET TO HIM, NOT TO ME.  MY THOUGHTS {HAIR} ABOUT IT ARE SECRET.

 

HAT, WHITE:  MARRIAGE, MARRIAGE MINDED

FOREHEAD, PUSHED BACK ON:  EXPOSING MY THOUGHTS OR DECISION.  Again, a white hat can mean other things but in the context of this dream it means this.