3-7-20-SEX WITH ME IS HIS
MAIN NEED
I was with my lover/husband in bed making love, but I was
taking my time. I see his penis like I
am on his left lying down facing him looking downward at his penis, & I see
it is covered with some sort of grey translucent matter in bits & pieces.
(GREY, TRANSLUCENT MATTER IN BITS & PIECES: THEY GREY GIVES IT AWAY THAT I HAVE BEEN
THINKING ABOUT THIS ISSUE NOW & AGAIN—CONCERNING SEX. AND YES, I HAVE BEEN PROCRASTINATING TOWARD
IT.)
I talk about this & say that I put a lot of COCONUT OIL
on his penis.
(COCONUT OIL, ON PENIS:
AMAZING SYMBOL. COCONUT OIL IS
SOLID WHEN IT’S COOL & TURNS INTO OIL WHEN IT’S WARM. THESE BITS & PIECES ARE SOLID, SO IT SAYS
THE COCONUT OIL IS COOL. THAT MEANS OUR
AFFAIR HAS BEEN COOL, WE HAVE NOT BEEN HAVING SEX DUE TO MY DECISION. I HAVE KEPT HIS PENIS FROM GETTING WARM OR
HOT.)
Then he tells me he wants no procrastination, I should get
down to business & do what he wants which is the basics of sex. He
explains it in his own way, I don’t recall the words, but mainly telling me
this is the paramount thing he needs from me.
But I protest saying,
“Other people get to sit across from you at a table &
have a meal with you – I don’t.”
“Other people get to go to town with you & walk around
together, enjoying your company – I don’t.”
“Other people get to hang around with you just for
companionship & talk to you – I don’t,”
I’m simply saying I am being deprived of pleasures &
companionship that are not sex, & so my procrastinating here is justified.
(JUSTIFIED, PROCRASTINATION: THIS IS SAYING I WANT MORE THAN SEX, SO I
HELD OUT ON SEX GIVING MYSELF LEVERAGE TO NEGOTIATE,
“YOU WANT SEX, YOU SAY HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO YOU, BUT WHAT
I WANT IS A RELATIONSHIP {THAT INCLUDES MORE THAN SEX.})
I see myself doing what we do to get him going & that’s
what he talks about, it’s the main thing he wants & needs me for, but it’s
not the only thing I want from him.
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MEANING: This dream
explains the conflict of interest between the male & female in this
case. He wants sex, that’s his main
interest. She wants a relationship. It raises many questions as to the
mental/emotional difference between men & women.
Do men basically ‘marry’ women because they want sex from
them on a regular basis? It seems that
way. Is sex the paramount way men
express their desires, how they are satisfied?
This is the cross purposes happening here.
The dream does not offer any solution, it merely states
that his desire continues but the female remains unsatisfied as to other
conditions. The dream explains his need,
her need—nothing else.
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SYMBOLS IN THE DREAM 3-7-20
GREY, TRANSLUCENT MATTER IN
BITS & PIECES:
THE GREY GIVES IT AWAY--THAT YOU HAVE BEEN
*THINKING* ABOUT THIS ISSUE NOW & AGAIN—CONCERNING SEX. AND YES, YOU HAVE BEEN PROCRASTINATING TOWARD
IT.
COCONUT OIL, ON PENIS:
AMAZING SYMBOL. COCONUT OIL IS SOLID WHEN IT’S COOL &
TURNS INTO OIL WHEN IT’S WARM. THESE
BITS & PIECES ARE SOLID, SO IT SAYS THE COCONUT OIL IS COOL. THAT MEANS YOUR AFFAIR HAS BEEN COOL, YOU
HAVE NOT ALLOWED HIM SEX. YOU HAVE KEPT
HIS PENIS FROM GETTING WARM OR HOT. THE
COCONUT OIL BEING WARM WOULD MEAN HAVING SEX.
PROCRASTINATION, JUSTIFIED:
THIS IS SAYING YOU WANT MORE THAN SEX, SO YOU
HELD OUT ON SEX DEMONSTRATING THIS ISN’T ENOUGH,
“YOU WANT SEX, YOU SAY HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO YOU, BUT WHAT
I WANT IS A RELATIONSHIP—WHICH INCLUDES MORE THAN SEX.”
Another interesting dream, if perhaps open to interpretation.
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